I lost my virginity to this guy,we were together 3 yrs.We were so happy but one time he pushed me at the 2 1/2 yr mark we stayed together six months after that, he never did that again or anything but I was so hurt I decided I couldn't take it anymore so I left.Now I'm old and I still love him.It's 4 yrs later.He begged me to come back and even got my name tattooed but I wouldn't I needed space to think but I was too shy to tell him back then.Now I'm older and not so shy I still love him and we both appologized but he's in arelationship now and he confuses me he blurted out that he doesn't love any girl but me and never will at a party since he's been with her and he hugged me and wouldn't let go and he was touching on me and stuff and he said he doesn't regret the tattoo yet even though he's my first love and I don't see anyone else he s the one maybe he says if I want him back I know what to do.How do I get over him if its already been 4 yrs and I still cant?Was I wrong?He pushed m
2006-08-01 22:30:57 · 16 answers · asked by devotion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
PS It was a very violent push.The worst part was there was a dog there and he got scared and bit my behind.It just scared me.
2006-08-01 22:37:14 · update #1
"wasn't"violent I mean
2006-08-02 17:50:32 · update #2
Do you really want a guy that is in a relationship and would mess around with you behind his girlfriend's back. I know it must have made you feel special, but really, what does that say about his integrity and ability to commit to a woman?
It sounds to me like you are romanticizing a relationship that wasn't quite as good as you remember it. I really think you need to move on. Develop new interests, meet new people.
Just accept that fact that you care for him, but he's moved on.. you need to too.
And don't you think that's a bit crazy for him to have had your name tattooed on him when you were no longer seeing one another?
2006-08-01 22:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you majorly over reacted . He just pushed you . He didnt hit you . My husband has pushed me a few times and i have tackled his azz down to the floor , he has begged for mercy for me to let him out of the theraputic hold i get him in . lol we have a baby now so we dont fight like that anymore but he has never hit me .Okay he has slaped me in the ear once but that was 9 years ago and it was because i was drunk and kicked him in the nutts but we arent ever physically viloent towards each other , since the nutts incident , I think you should go claim your man , I also think there is other reasons why you hadnt been in a serious relationship with him yet and you just using the pushing incident as a excuse . Do you see him potenially as a violent abusive or verbally abusive man in the future ??? You need to sort out these issues before getting serious with him again
2006-08-01 22:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by Diane26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-28 14:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by bollinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him how you feel. no your NOT wrong at all. but you do need to tell him how ypu feel so you can see where exactly he stands. you still love him and probably always will because of the fact he was your first love. sit back.. take a deep breath and think this alllll out hun. then write him a letter telling him everything... letter,,, e-mail... whatever telling him basicly what you told us. spill out your feelings so you can begin moving on. for all you know he may be with this girl trying to get over you when he really in fact wants to be with you.
2006-08-01 22:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a long long time to get over a first love even if they are wrong for us. Just keep thinking about the bad and realize that love does not make up for abuse and just because he has your name on his body does not mean anything. Move on and keep looking you will realize that other men treat you better.
2006-08-01 22:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never say good bye if u still hope to try, never give up if u still feel u can go on, never say u dont love a person anymore if u can not let go.
Give him a chance and u never regret
2006-08-01 22:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not wrong pushing and shoning lead to other things the best way to get over him is to find some one else and get a hobby to keep your mind and hand busy
2006-08-01 22:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look we love we 4give. that's the deal of love.
u said u love him,he loves u.and it's been a while that all this happened and u still can't 4get him....
girl.... don't be tough at least on ur self.
ask him back.
2006-08-01 22:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very big paragraph. When your problems get big enough for that many words, then you have to solve them yourself.
2006-08-01 22:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you closed the door it was locked you cannot go back , Make the best of your choice
2006-08-01 22:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋