i am 24. i have been friends with this married girl of 27, since few yrs, i am even close to her family. i live alone so they treat me as family.
i never looked at her in any wrong way till one day few months back.. it was a a rainy, cold afternoon & i was in hell of a romantic mood..
since it was my off day.. as usual i used to visit her house. she as usual was busy with her work, (she had a miscarriage few mths before that, was not well mentally physically, depresed) my eyes kept going to her & i kept watching her, with many feeling growing in my heart. sudenly i cud take it no more nd i started trying to get close to her n touch her. she kept brushing me off. this went on 4 sumtime till she responded to my feelings.
well 2 cut a long story short.. after few days we started a relationship, at first it was just 4 fun, but later we realised we were in love.
after sometime i had to shift to another city, we got married before i left, coz we believed our love was true. r we wrong?
2006-08-01 22:42:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. i cared 4 her as a part of my family before we got close..
we got married in a temple, coz u dont need documents 4 that.
we keep in touch & talk everyday
even though i am far, i cannot think of being with any other girl
2006-08-01 22:45:07 · update #1
boss,
first of all u have taken undue advantage and u have betrayed the trust of her husband, who allowed u in his home and considered u as a family. u never had that feeling but after sex only u realised that so it is quite clear what has attracted u.
anyway since u have got married with her, now stop thinking what is that, just keep one thing in ur mind that she is ur wife now and u have to love her and give her all the happiness of life.
all the best.
2006-08-01 23:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by raj.bng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell u that, but the fact that u have doubts now could be becoz : 1-u r not in love, or 2: u have doubts about marriage. I believe marriage can kill passion and replace it with caring. That's not enough for some people
2006-08-01 22:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a very sweet feeling, but did you tried to cut yhe relation for a while to know whether its love or something you use to see in the house or talk to.
getting married depends on many reasons and must be based on love. but its not the only reason.
have a nice trip.
2006-08-01 22:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly, it may have been a bit rash to get married just for fear of losing each other, but if you can't think of dating another girls chances are this is not infatuation. it looks pretty serious, and if you focus on the relationship and show her how much you care it just may end up to be a happy marriage! g'luck!
2006-08-01 22:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by adriana . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup your both wrong She knows your a marriage wrecker and will run off with another married woman and shes prepeared to fool around while she is married . Your relationship is doomed . You will get what you deseve both of you ,
2006-08-01 22:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love
no answer for that actually
bro u did wht u felt cool
nothing wrong in that
it could have been better if u stayed with her
i think u should go back and be with her or she can come to u
i dont no how u ppl living apart
2006-08-01 22:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're lonely and second guessing yourself. Stop, call her up, and get yourself over this. The only ones who can answer those questions are you two, and really, that's answered by time, not words.
2006-08-01 22:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Stigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now you got married ,then no need to comment
2006-08-01 22:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-01 22:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by gallow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is married!!!!
Did she divorce then........
put it clear
I still cant get it
2006-08-01 22:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Raineli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋