Family & Relationships - 1 August 2006

i am 27yrs old and have been married for 7 yrs now, it was an arranged marriage..
some time back i started this affair with this guy who is 24yrs old now.. we used to be friends for 3 yrs untill one day we realised we were attracted 2 each other.. we started this relationship & it kept going deeper.. it was like i could not live without him.. Then suddely he got notice that he had to shif to another city regarding his work 2 mths back.. he left.. but before that we got married in a temple so that our love would not be incomplete.. we r always in touch & talk daily.. but.. there r many probs that r in our way..
1st of all my family (parents & siblings) depends totally on my husband, so i cant get out of this marriage.
2ndly my bf is just working & barely supports himself.
3rdly even if i thot of living with my bf.. his parents would disown him, he would never want this to happen.
we r both from orthodox hindu families..

is our relationship just an EMA

wat advice do u have?

2006-08-01 19:24:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lady, supposed to be in Africa now. May be of Russian nationality. Single, 20s to 30s yr old.

2006-08-01 19:23:02 · 2 answers · asked by william b 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is the shortened version of my situation. I'm head over hills for this guy that I kind of work with. Well, we have gone out on dates since last October (eventhough it can only be 1 day a week due to our work schedules). We also see each other when he makes his rounds. We do flirt a lot and he did say there is no other girl that he is seeing, yet he doesn't want to start a relationship. If he doesn't want a relationship, then why do we go out every week, and why did we take a mini vacation together? I don't know what to make of it all. Here is something else too. A couple days ago, I had to put up with a pervert so he came down with back up and back up had a back up. There are other things that have happened, and I feel like he does really like me, but I want to know why he hasn't delcared anything or am I just dreamin? Please help!

2006-08-01 19:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by crimescenedancer 1 in Singles & Dating

Usually when we have sex it lasts like 10 minutes and she never wants to do foreplay. Then when we are done she either rolls over and goes to sleep or she goes in the living room and watches ESPN and drinks beer. I am sooooo furious!! Please help.

2006-08-01 19:22:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have some legal issues and i might go to jail so my father has volunteered to adopt him because then my son will be guaranteed financial help because my father gets social security...anyways the father of the baby left us along time ago and it seems as if he is not on the face of this earth...i know my parents would never do anything evil like try to keep me from my son but one day i want to move away from them and will my son and i be able to(legaly?)

2006-08-01 19:20:57 · 13 answers · asked by sexy luv 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been going out with my boyfriend for about two years and i dont know how he feels about what we are doing during sex. i kind of get the feeling that were doing the same thing over and over. i really want some tips on moves/positions/tricks that will blow his mind with pleasure.

2006-08-01 19:20:35 · 6 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-01 19:19:32 · 11 answers · asked by babeyfacecutiepie11 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-01 19:19:24 · 10 answers · asked by cpt_iron 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a very romantic person and i love everyone but i was wondering if guys like or love romantic girls and i mean true love not lust :)

2006-08-01 19:18:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-01 19:18:00 · 17 answers · asked by Beware_I'm_Here 3 in Family

This is a intelligent question , and intelligence and faith are the base for the answers.if heaven and hell exist, then good deeds will be rewarded and bad deeds will be punished, or else there is no means of doing good and holding hand from bad . then there will be no difference b/w truth and lie , no difeerence b/w marriage and pre marriage sex,no difference b/w respect and disrespect.and also there would have been no death , why death comes, yes there is heaven and hell and there is one god , and we all have to answer our deeds , so dont see this material world and enjoy but be prepered for after death, tell me iam right or wrong please and ur comments?

2006-08-01 19:17:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

need someone to talk to. im so bored.:(

2006-08-01 19:15:36 · 10 answers · asked by Bella J 1 in Singles & Dating

Dear people

A sad fact is my mum has been taking my stuff ( the piss ) all my life
from primary school
at first she merle seemed to glory in my perpetual torment , being bullied
tell me about it she used to say with glee in her smile and false sympathy but I picked this up
sadly I always lied about this relationship she actually told me when I was 11 or so she had and
always would never loved me ( infact she hated me ).
however I always said she did love me to all my friends because this is all I ever wanted out of her.
sad but true.
later my dad was telling me don’t fight bullies just look away,
and that boy Jorge was gay ( when I was at primary school ) , I said naigh he is a punk this is his style !
in short I loved boy gorge and I wasn’t going to think he was... I never believed in prejudice at all I swear by

my life.
my dad used to say ... ill sort out the problem of being bullied at school for you ... never did

[( later in life years later , It was the same , He seemed sym

2006-08-01 19:15:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've loved him sence 1st grade.I'm goin into the 6th He says that he likes this other girl that HIS friends dating.I'll always love him.It must be true love cuz i keep deeling with him braking up with me and i still love him.

2006-08-01 19:13:06 · 15 answers · asked by Angel8 G 1 in Singles & Dating

True Love..............

What can be better , than sharing a tender kiss
A warm embrace , on a magical night of bliss
A gentle caress , as my fingers stroke her face
As i utter her name , with each breath that i take

My heart skips a beat, when i look into her eyes
The thought of her takes me away, from this world of lies
From my waking moment ,her face is all that i see
Her beauty is unmatched , it's heavenly to me

I hold her hand ,and my whole life is like a dream
My passion for her flows through me, like a mighty stream
I watch her from a distance, she's poetry in motion
The love i have for her is deeper, than the deepest ocean

When she is not near me, my eyes fill with tears
But when she's by my side, my fears disappear
With excitement, I hang on every word that she speaks
I am breathless in her presence,my knees become weak

I would do anything for her, my life is in her hands
All she needs to do is ask me, and i'll do what i can
Love is a such a thing, which whisks you away
An amazing adventure for two, till your dying day

So hold on to the one you love , where ever you may be
For the love of another , can set your soul free

2006-08-01 19:13:03 · 16 answers · asked by SF2MJ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-01 19:12:01 · 7 answers · asked by hrishykesh__21 1 in Friends

A man walks into a pharmacy and wanders up and down the aisles.
The sales girl notices him and asks him if she can help him.
He answers that he is looking for a box of tampons for his wife.
She directs him down the correct aisle.
A few minutes later, he deposits a huge bag of cotton
balls and a ball of string on the counter.
She says, confused, "Sir, I thought you were looking for some
tampons
for your wife?
He answers, " You see, it's like this,
yesterday, I sent my wife to the store to get me a carton of
cigarettes,
and she came back with a tin of tobacco and some rolling
papers; cause it's sooo-ooo--oo-ooo much cheaper.
So, I figure if I have to roll my own ......... so does she.

2006-08-01 19:11:27 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-01 19:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by Tim 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-01 19:10:15 · 5 answers · asked by agentaita1 2 in Singles & Dating

what was that situation and what did u do?

2006-08-01 19:09:21 · 5 answers · asked by Musty 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband wants us to go away each weekend to see friends or go to the beach which would be great but he always wants his parents to come too! Every time I say no, he gets upset and says they are a close family....what can I do? I dread every weekend now as I know there is going to be an arguement! Suggestions please as to how I can solve this. I love him very much and would just like to spend time alone with him....

2006-08-01 19:09:16 · 17 answers · asked by faithy73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 13

2006-08-01 19:08:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-01 19:08:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-01 19:07:37 · 20 answers · asked by amber m 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been with him for 3 years now.
he says he still loves me,however he says my weight gain has made him far less attracted to me.
he doesnt hold my hand anymore or kiss me the way he used to.
he comes to my house 5 times a month if im lucky-we live down the street from eachother.
once again-he says my 30 lb weight gain is a huge obstacle for him. he feels he cant be loving and caring and as attentive to someone who doesnt care about herself anymore.
should i move on,or try to lose the weight and win back his love?
HELP!

2006-08-01 19:04:22 · 13 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, heres what I know; I was born in san jose calif on sept 11, 1966. Our mother was born in texas and moved to california where she lived for 22 years. She was catholicand was employed as a clerk in a wharehouse. Back then she was only 5 ft tall and weighed only 108 pounds. She had blue eyes and light brown hair with a olive completion. Her mother and father were divorced and she never knew her father, but her mother re-married and there was one step brother and one step sister to her. My brothers were only 6, 5, and 3 1/2 years old when i was given up. My sister was also given up and was 2years old when i was born.My father was 31 years old and had asked to marry my mother, she felt he was not responsible enough. My fathers mother had re-married and moved to Italy. My father has one sister. He is described to be about six feet tall and having olive complection, black shiney wavy hair and he also has blue eyes. She called him a male model. It was also told that he played the clarnit

2006-08-01 19:03:46 · 3 answers · asked by jtyt4225 1 in Weddings

2006-08-01 19:03:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious, I'm party of wedding party, my girlfriend isn't. The people getting married are making me hang-out on a golf-course between the wedding and the reception, and I have to sit with the wedding party, while my girlfriend who does not know anyone will be alone. I'm trying not to hurt anyone's feelings!

2006-08-01 19:03:34 · 7 answers · asked by jroswhatwhat 1 in Weddings

If your married how far can I go with compliments? If your single attached or unattached what kind of attention turns your head?

2006-08-01 19:01:04 · 15 answers · asked by ftmd 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey well First of I am not gay, bi, curious or anything else like that. I don't know what the hell happened. I was hanging out talking with my fiance's dad got really drunk, and the next morning I woke up naked in bed with him. I know what you're gonna say that how do I know that we actually did anything together. Trust me I know. I wont say how, but I know. I didn't say anything to her dad when I woke up. He was still asleep so I just left. I just don't know what to do. We're getting married next month. I know I have to tell her. I also know it's really gonna **** things up. I just don't know how to tell her, or what to do. Also, I don't know how to face her dad, and discuss it. Someone please help me with this mess. If anyone has any advice or can relate to my situation I'd love to hear it.

2006-08-01 19:00:39 · 17 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Other - Family & Relationships