you don't.
you get to know her first.
or, alternately if you insist on making a fool of yourself
walk up to her. introduce yourself, give her a rose/ roses, ask her out... she might say yes.
at some point some nice compliments are in order.
2006-08-01 19:24:09
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answered by The greatest and the best. 5
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My question would be: How come you have such a burning desire to ask out some woman you have never talked to before? Have there been ample opportunities for the two of you to have talked if she had taken an interest in you? If so, then maybe asking her out isn't the wisest thing to do at all. My advice would be to attempt to talk to her before asking her out and then to judge whether or not to ask her out (as well as how best to do so) on your conversations with her.
2006-08-02 02:26:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Well i would start off with giving her a compliment of some sort, then introduce your self, be a gentlemen, and dont hold back, be extreme. Tell her a story about yourself and what you might have just done lately, make her laugh, then based on her reactions thereafter, u will pretty much know what u have room for as far as being to nosy.
2006-08-02 02:28:46
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answered by the sponge 3
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well u should first talk 2 her 4 a bit and then just ask her out 4 lunch or somthin...dont take her 2 like the movies or somthin cuz than u wont b able 2 get 2 kno her
2006-08-02 02:24:55
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answered by snowboard_n_freak13 1
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Start talking to her a litle each time you see her. Walk in and just say Hi____ What's up? Then try to talk to her about something she is interested in. Then it wont be such a shock when you ask her out.
2006-08-02 02:23:43
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answered by C.A.T 1
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im a chick and i have the same problem . almost . thers this realllly cute guy that ive been crushin on since like november of last year and when ever hes around i go speechless i lose my breath i cant think of anything to say. he used to make effort to talk with me and we would get soooo close to sealing the deal like maybe exchaniging nbrs or som ething but neither never had the guts too. so anyway hes stopped talking to me altogether and is usually hanging with this chick who works with us. i can never approahc him because shes always there and im not sure hes interested anymore.
my point is that like me, she might be uber shy and is hoping that u approach her soon.
heres what i wish he would do...
walk up to me and ease my mind with a light compliment so i can bat my eyelashes and smile all big, then make small talk about not seeing me around or something so i could open up and tell him that yeah i miss seeing his smile a little . then he could just come out and say u know i bet we would have fun together ive always thought u were interesting and i can say i agree maybe we should exchange nbrs and see if ur prediction is true.. we priobably will have fun.
but tahts in a perfect world. what you can do is :
compliment as u pass by , dont linger give it time to soak in shell be thinking about it all day long... make it a good compliment though .. women usually take forever picking out outfits so maybe on taht if she looks really well put together or her hair or something physical, but not that sounds sexual.
then when u see her again make eye contact and smile and ask her something like 'where you been' (if u dont really see her) or 'youre in a good mood, i can tell by that gorgeous smile', 'not in a good mood? wanna talk about it?'
stick around a few mins and chat with her have something to talk about in advance but dont rehearse lines... have topics.. one good topic should get u through a couple mins.. when ure ready to hightail it out of there , like in 5 mins, say i better be heading back but id like to finish this conversation with u sometime... let me give u my nbr so we can finish it up.... if ud like to. if she accepts it (with a smile or not) you've done all u can, now its up to fate . if she refuses it, dont feel bad or hurt, just say something like 'no big deal, just thought u might want to finish up the convo, have a good one' and leave immediately. (If she chases u this is a good thing, but dont expect it) if talk of ur rejection comes back up in the future, you can always say that u were only being friendly and she made a bigger deal out of it than it was supposed to be.
if she does accept ur nbr and maybe even give u hers without hassle, then u might even say something sweet like 'talk with u soon sweetie' with a wink,.on ur way out to remind her that u are interested HER not the convo u two just had.
2006-08-02 02:49:10
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answered by LN 2
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U try hard, ask A friend that she doesn't know to ask her if she likes u. And if she dont ask if u can b her friend.
2006-08-02 02:25:49
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answered by Angel8 G 1
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get to know her a little before asking her out. small talk ya know, then ask if all goes well.
2006-08-02 02:23:26
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answered by Anonymous
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You say "So you seem really nice and I would like to go out w/ you! So do you think we could try and see what heppens?"
2006-08-02 02:24:36
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answered by Anonymous
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"hello, may i show u my stamp collection?"
2006-08-02 02:28:43
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answered by HOTTürk 4
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