are my parent's sympathetic ?

Question

Dear people

A sad fact is my mum has been taking my stuff ( the piss ) all my life
from primary school
at first she merle seemed to glory in my perpetual torment , being bullied
tell me about it she used to say with glee in her smile and false sympathy but I picked this up
sadly I always lied about this relationship she actually told me when I was 11 or so she had and
always would never loved me ( infact she hated me ).
however I always said she did love me to all my friends because this is all I ever wanted out of her.
sad but true.
later my dad was telling me don’t fight bullies just look away,
and that boy Jorge was gay ( when I was at primary school ) , I said naigh he is a punk this is his style !
in short I loved boy gorge and I wasn’t going to think he was... I never believed in prejudice at all I swear by

my life.
my dad used to say ... ill sort out the problem of being bullied at school for you ... never did

[( later in life years later , It was the same , He seemed sym

hee hee NOOOO !
lol... you fell in love with Boy George, eh?

Supported the punk rock movment !
you know odd cloths , pins all over kind of stuff ?

thanks dude ! shakes head

Answer 1

Your parents were not there for you when you were a child. Now you are hurting and are asking why! Sometimes people become parents and should never be parents as they are so emotionally detached themselves that they find it hard to care about another person. I am not saying that your parents were bad people or that they did not love you but they were unable to show you love because they could not show these emotions and feelings. Talk to your parents and tell them how you feel and how you felt when you were a child. By opening up to them, they may feel able to explore their own feelings to. Good luck x

Answer 2

No they don't sound sympathetic to me but you are not going to change the past so stop trying to. Instead learn by the past and what their attitude has done to you and resolve to be different from them if you have a family and, indeed, to friends if they need help and a sympathetic ear. You will be surprised at how much satisfaction you will get from helping someone who is feeling low because they have a problem.

Answer 3

im very very confused... i dont know what to say about your parents. they may of been wrong about alot of things....but they were right about boy george.(george o,dowd) he is gay.. he hasnt got a problem with it. so why should you.? respect him as an artist.... ..

Seriously. i think you have very low self esteem- if you were bullied in school -you obviously expected your parents to take control of the situation and put a stop to it. .... if you expected thier protection and didnt get it-then thats another knock back ... your dad was trying to protect you by saying walk away- ignore them..... he wasnt saying he didnt care, or he didnt believe you.he was trying to advise you the way he thought best.

see your gp,and see if you can get cognitive behavoiur therapy.. it may help you .....

Answer 4

I envy you. You seem to have had some really intense emotional contact with you parents. They are just people too. They can be really messed up and it has nothing to do with you.
I think it is cold that your mom says she doesn't love you but then she may be dealing "with her own demons".
Go with what you got. Try to do better. If you have kids, try to be the better parents your parents could not be.

Answer 5

At least you know how not to behave with ppl, especially kids in general. Try and get to grips with life from your own standards not your parents. If you need help/ Counselling then get it. You have the rest of your life to live so do it on your own terms. Trust me it is possible to come through this..take it from one who knows>>

Answer 6

Yes,I feel bad 4 u.I wish u had a better child hood.That's the truth,not tryin to b mean.

Answer 7

for a mum to say that to a child of 11 is unforgivable. they're not sympathetic at all. have a great life despite them.

Answer 8

judging by your other questions i really think you need to go and get some help....( and i am not just talking about your grammar and spelling ). and if this is a serious question, (again judging by your others), then you really need to get some counselling...it sounds like you need to talk to someone.

good luck!

Answer 9

i don't follow. but your mom, well is mean obviously. and you got bullied because you loved another guy? if that's the case, i don't blame your dad for not sticking up for you.

Answer 10

Sounds more like Pathetic to me.