Family & Relationships - 28 July 2006

if this is u please IM me you answered my TN question

2006-07-28 17:18:38 · 2 answers · asked by beachchic705 2 in Singles & Dating

he wanted 2 know how i was and what i was doin then when we said good bye and good night and then there was slint as if he wanted me 2 say i love you what i should do does he like me still or what

2006-07-28 17:18:33 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda S 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this man in college we dated for about a year, i then moved on and got married two times since this man, he got married on e time for only 6 months, he then still keep in contact threw my second marriage, he still says he loves me after all these years. i never had a really attraction toward himbecause he is not the best looking, but he always gave me anything i wanted when we did date. I am now separated from my second marriage and filing for a divorce, he still wants me and wants to be married tome. He is dating another woman and has adopeted her son as his but he he said he did not want to marry her, but he says he will leave this woman afete about 2 years and be with me, i feel that is not right because he is now leaving that woman who he had maybe some feelings for cause he adopoted her child. what do you think. he also have another child by accident by another person that is his child, he has no dealing with her at all. should i give him a chance he want give up.

2006-07-28 17:18:31 · 21 answers · asked by girlmiddle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, what do you think about that.

2006-07-28 17:18:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK I know it is convenient in some instances. However, many guys just prefer to text you instead of calling you even if they could call you at that time. Why is that? Isn't it easier to just talk a couple of minutes instead of sending 3-4 messages back and forth just to set up a meeting place etc.? Am I missing sth?

2006-07-28 17:17:49 · 13 answers · asked by ceba 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy who is usually a jerk to me and my friend, so we decided to get him back. I found his number and decided to text message him undercover. I didn't tell him my real name because well you know.. i was undercover. Soon after about a week he started to fall in love with me. I had told him the truth about everything, except my name of course. Then he asked my undercover identity to be his girlfriend. I, she , accepted.He was sweet and sooo nice to me ...her,but was not the same way to the real me. A few days later he kinda sorta found out. Now he's mad... and I mean mad at me. the wierd thing is that now he loves my personality but hates me just because my name is not the undercover name. What do you have to say about this.

2006-07-28 17:17:47 · 10 answers · asked by ♡StarGirl♡ 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-07-28 17:17:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok sooooo heres the story......my "friend" texted message my boyfriend, and she likes him too. So while she was texting him, she said she was going to lye on the bed cuz she was tired. Then she was like "i wish you were here next to my bed so i can tell you how much i love you" to MY boyfriend. Then the next day or so she text him a pix off her nothing but a towel to MY boyfriend....luckly i can trust my boyfriend and he isnt falling for it and he delected the pix. But when my best friend was emailing her back and fort about it (she was pissed too) my "friend" was like " she's flipping out for no reason!" WHICH I DO HAVE A REASON!!!!!!!! i no you all are going to say "dump her" and stuff like that BUT I NEED TO DO SOMETHING!!!!

2006-07-28 17:16:47 · 6 answers · asked by Cherry-Bomb 1 in Friends

I dont mean a seperation i just mean time apart. My hubby and I have been married almost 6 years and we havent spent but the time hes at work apart. We always do things together. (He did go out of town for work for two weeks about a year ago but thats about it) those have been the only nights we didnt spend together. we got together in june '99 and havent been apart since.
I have asked him if he would like to "go out with the guys" and he always says "what guys the only people i know are from work and i have to deal with them all day why whould i want to extend the time with them?" Nither of us actually have any friends sept for each other. (never did) He has always said he'd rather spend time with me and the kids than be anywhere else.

2006-07-28 17:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by naightengale 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-28 17:16:00 · 7 answers · asked by lolliexiao 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 17:15:51 · 44 answers · asked by yumyum 6 in Singles & Dating

ok ive been with my bf for over a year and a half. weve had a great relationship, for the most part. we hardly ever fight and when we do, we make up really quick.the only problem with the relationship is ME. i have a horrible jealousy issue.

i get all upset if i think i see him look at a girl or if he looks at a girl's myspace or if he talks to a girl...if he looks at a celebrity for more than a second. i know there's something wrong with me. i feel like im becoming controlling and possessive. i know i cant control him or his thoughts.

i know it is slowly ruining relationship...i feel like we don't talk about ANYTHING anymore. it's like i shut down completely. i feel like we're growing apart. what can i do to get the communication flowing again and fix myself?!

2006-07-28 17:15:33 · 15 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Did your honeymoon go as planned or was it a disaster?
Mine was a disaster! We got married on Labor Day weekend, then went to Branson (we live in Missouri and it was close) and it went from bad to worst. We could not afford a hotel, thankfully had a tent, but the tent had no spikes and the tent poles were bent and we had to tie it to a tree. Then I forgot to pack toothbrushes and other necessities. Then the brakes went out on the car. And we ran out of money and had to come back early.

**But I'm getting a second one on my anniversary!!**

2006-07-28 17:14:43 · 3 answers · asked by Kitikat 6 in Weddings

i always need attention and having him telling me he loves me and calling me beautiful, and if he doesnt i freak out. What can I do to fight these dumb insecurity issues?

2006-07-28 17:13:59 · 29 answers · asked by katie l 2 in Singles & Dating

How come nice guys always finish last? how come girls always talk about how they wish they could meet a nice guy and how they will never find one. so girls always end up with assholes that screw everything else up for the one actually nice guy that is interested or will be interested in her. and if there single then the nice guy thinks he may actually have a chance. but then something happens, the girls start playing games with the nice guy because he has a sign on him that says " he's a nice guy, lets **** with him" why do girls do this? and ive had some girls say this to me so many times its crazy. when a nice guy finally gets enough guts in him to tell her how he feels about her she goes and says, " i dont deserve you." or " your sweet" or " your just not my type" this to me feel like a slap in the face, its like you see their next bf and he is a total *** and treats her like **** but shes still says i wish i could find a nice guy, while your still in the same situation you were before. still single and still screwed. how do those guys do it? they are straight up assholes and the girls are still with them. i just dont get it. so if you girls can help us out by why you play games with the guys that truly care for you, and would never want to hurt you. of course there is a whole other side for guys to talk about but mybe i will get to that some other time.

**Here us some other things that i have THOUGHT of but didnt understand.**

Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.


IT MAKES US FEEL SO SECURE TO KNOW THAT OUR GIRLFRIEND ISNT OFF FLIRTING WITH GUYS WE'VE NEVER HEARD OF!!

We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Smile and say "thank you."

LET US PAY FOR YOU!

DON'T "FEEL BAD"

We enjoy doing it.

It's expected.

Smile and say - everybody together now - "thank you."

Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.


don't flirt with guys when we're not with you.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.

Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with YOU.


Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hot Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey
handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

Girls, IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISCRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ***, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT


Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the
eyes....and say "i love you" ...
....AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!
Give the nice guys a chance
Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this.

2006-07-28 17:12:44 · 25 answers · asked by thanat c 2 in Singles & Dating

my brother is 31 and hes single and he having a tough time finding someone..

2006-07-28 17:11:49 · 10 answers · asked by david g 1 in Singles & Dating

Ya So today i was supposed to hang out w/ the girl that i like but when i call her and ask what we were gonna do she tells me that she has to run some errands w/ her dad and that she would call me back. thats cool right? she never called me back.

now everyone is over at a friends house except me. i called someone expecting them to say that it was cool and for me to come over but that didnt happen and he said he would call me later. ya that didnt happen either.

so i guess nobody wants to be around me today. idk what it is but needless to say im pretty pissed off at all this.

this kinda stuff always seems to happen to me. no one calls me so i guess i should be used to it but its when they say they wil call and they dont that just got me so mad.

so i was wondering how many people either feel like this or have felt like this in their life?

2006-07-28 17:10:46 · 11 answers · asked by jmon 3 in Singles & Dating

ok today I had my two and half year old niece and my seven year old newphew. I love them to death thier usally preety sweet and funny to be around. But today they were holy terrors. I dont know how many times my newphew saw the coner or I had to give her a time out for one she was takeing off her diaper all the time.for two she hits her brother and for three he wouldnt listen and talked back. I had to physical pick them up and sit them in a chair and tell them please behave what should I do when this happens again.

2006-07-28 17:10:25 · 6 answers · asked by Renee B 5 in Family

My father in law was supposed to be very sick and near death. His wife has poor vision. They live 8 hours from us. My husband went to visit to help them.....almost 8 months ago. When I approached them last month about the whole thing...their response was, "What would you have done with your parents?" They won't move. I am sick and tired of being alone while he has set up a life in Tennessee to "help" his parents. He has reduced their stress level dramatically because he does alot. I feel guilty. Sad. Lonely. Angry. I don't think he should have just stayed.. He is not a single son...he has a wife and stepdaughter. I don't know what to think any more. His parents think it is fine that my husband lives with them to help them. Lonely in Illinois

2006-07-28 17:10:24 · 7 answers · asked by Miriam S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was dating this remarkably perfect boy for 17 months almost. I broke up with him because I thought I was falling out of love with him. I felt extremly uncomfortable being around him, talking to him, and him touching me. I realized what a big mistake I made though after the break up and desperately wanted him back as my boyfriend. He's finally gotten back into contact with me. We weren't talking for 5 months and he's finally come around again because I was feeling extremly depressed and I missed him so much.
I'm starting to feel the same way I did before the break up. I don't want to feel uncomfortable but I do. I honestly want to love him again. He just did so much for me and I cared about him so much in the past. He was my best friend. ]: I don't see how I wanted to get back together for 5 months and now that he's back I get all uncomfortable again. D: I don't want to feel uncomfortable.
Why do i feel uncomfortable?! It's almost as I'm scared to love him again.

2006-07-28 17:10:16 · 9 answers · asked by mango lover. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And what if the friends you thought you had ditched you?

2006-07-28 17:08:31 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

What are nice, inexpensive, yet tasteful gifts for a 50th high school class reunion? They can be "gag" type, but not offensive or hurtful. We are a group of "with it" seniors, so we don't have to be extremely sensitive. I want them to be fun, and hopefully, useful.

2006-07-28 17:07:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

thrs this guy that i like and we talk alot but i cant tell if he likes me or hes just flirting for fun

2006-07-28 17:07:35 · 7 answers · asked by emaria 2 in Singles & Dating

What can I do to make them feel like they are apart of the group? I'm guessing I'm "the one" in the group now and only I can make them feel better.

2006-07-28 17:07:23 · 1 answers · asked by Ani 1 in Friends

Me and my hubby have been together for 6 years and are very much in love but I've always been atracted to other females I think I may be bisexual but I've never been with a girl before I want to have sex with a female and I want to share this experience with my hubby. SHOULD I?

2006-07-28 17:07:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 17:06:39 · 13 answers · asked by Stink Finger 2 in Singles & Dating

Just curious if it is possible for any man to be in love with two women at the same time. It seems quite improbable to me. What do you think?

2006-07-28 17:06:33 · 14 answers · asked by Paulina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you like to DYI?

2006-07-28 17:05:55 · 18 answers · asked by poplockerbreaker 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this cute waitress at a resturaunt that I go to occasionally and she has been my waitress a few times, and now I go in and ask for her. I am wondering though what would be the best way to ask her out with out sounding like a lame as s?

2006-07-28 17:05:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah, you go out cheating on your significant and that's cool. Now the shoe is on the other foot and you've been played. Like it? Do you feel good? Women, you can reply too. Think the 'man' feeling much of a man right about now? Angry? Then treat her right...because this Jody bites.

2006-07-28 17:03:21 · 16 answers · asked by No shame, No game 2 in Singles & Dating