Theres this guy who is usually a jerk to me and my friend, so we decided to get him back. I found his number and decided to text message him undercover. I didn't tell him my real name because well you know.. i was undercover. Soon after about a week he started to fall in love with me. I had told him the truth about everything, except my name of course. Then he asked my undercover identity to be his girlfriend. I, she , accepted.He was sweet and sooo nice to me ...her,but was not the same way to the real me. A few days later he kinda sorta found out. Now he's mad... and I mean mad at me. the wierd thing is that now he loves my personality but hates me just because my name is not the undercover name. What do you have to say about this.
2006-07-28 17:17:47 · 10 answers · asked by ♡StarGirl♡ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you did is a form of deception--- lying, by not telling him your name. But if you did, you wouldn't have heard from him, right?
Unfortunately, guys are wired differently than us. They are visual, in that they have to like what they see before anything else or it's a no go. Sometimes, most times, it doesn't matter what your personality is like at all to a guy if you're gorgeous. (But then they only want 1 thing! huh)
So he seems to be "in love" with your personality but not the real you. Is he worth it? And is it worth the deception?
Maybe some day you can be friends again but trying to regain his trust will be hard. Guys don't like to be fooled.
What am I saying???!!! He was a jerk--- forget about it and him!!!
Just don't do it to someone you really like!
2006-07-28 17:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He hates you just because your name is not the undercover name? I would hate you for playing games with my head. I think you have the hots for this guy, but you're not his type for what-ever reason. I think if you like him you should go after him, but this method is somewhat unethical, and yes, mean. You probably don't stand a chance now, so just get over it and try not to mess up the next time. I'd send him one last message and tell him why you did it, he might do you out of pity????
2006-07-29 00:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by DallasGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few things to say about it. Do you like revenge? Are you sure it is YOUR personality or someone you represented to be? It sounds like the guy is ignorant about how to treat people in general, in your case, girls. He may be a jerk because he is ignorant but at least he wasn't decieving you for sport. Does it make you feel good to hurt him? Do you think you would like to be treated the way you treated him? Do you think that two wrongs make a right? This is pretty much all I have to say about it except what really matters is how you feel about it and not what I think about it.
2006-07-29 00:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by brad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if this makes since or not, but I think he likes you and when he found out it was you he was shocked and didn't want to show true emotions. Usually when guys act like jerks, it because they have some interest in you. So let him play it off.
2006-07-29 00:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Don S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if he's mad forget about it, and if he does come to his senses turn him down for being a jerk and taking so long, or tease him some more and see what he will do to be with u, go 2 the extreme
2006-07-29 00:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by emaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think dudes got problems if u do not like the name of someone when they had no chose in it because it came frome there parents i personally don't care what a persons name is it could be sh.it on a stick for all i care
2006-07-29 00:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by kreischr000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes being made a fool of. And it was kinda mean...its like they say 'love hurts'
The bigger question is are you falling for him now? 'cause it sounds that way to me.
2006-07-29 00:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by insert pseudonym 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that that was kinda rude, but funny at the same time. But, if you hadn't of done i, he would have never liked you. Tell him that that was your personality, not whoever's. Tell him that you are sorry but you really would like to get to know him.
2006-07-29 00:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by rawrawree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not like the way you look. So he does not care about your personality.
2006-07-29 00:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by al_dickey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling him you were just pranking him, then you kind of liked him afterwards
2006-07-29 00:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by jsmonkey013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋