And what if the friends you thought you had ditched you?
2006-07-28 17:08:31 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to talk to new people slowly as u make up the courage and be friendly , not to clingy and you'll have friends soon...good luck :D
2006-07-28 17:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Focus on your school work...friend's will be made and sometimes lost, in the end your true friends will accept you as you are. The people who "ditched" you were not friend's to begin with. Human being's are by nature, generally friendly...but just like apple's, there will be a few rotten one's in every bunch. Relax, there's a lot of people in the same situation...it all works out, either sooner or a bit later.
2006-07-28 17:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by citywolf57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make me some new friends. I would join some of the clubs, and do some after school activities. That way, I could meet more people. Be friendly, and have a good attitude, that always helps.
2006-07-28 17:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go about my own business and wait for someone to come to me. Don't go out of your way trying to be friend with anyone who obviously doesn't want to be friends anyway. I would find out, or try to anyway, why they ditched me and if it was some little insignificant thing, then they were not worth having for a friend anyway and you are a lot better off withouth them! Just do YOUR thing and try to excel at whatever you do best. Screw them.
2006-07-28 17:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tony T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were the new person I would make friends with someone I thought would be a nice person and not intimidating to me, especially if I thought I wouldn't fit in with the people whom I thought were my friends. Sometimes it's more important to please yourself with the people you like (those who usually end up being your friend for a long time) and not the people that you think you "should" be with (the so called cooler crowd).
2006-07-28 17:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by cherry-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to join a club that you are interested in, or join a sport. That is the best way to meet people, and you have a better shot at developing friendships because you know that you have something in common with them. Hang in there, you'll find friends soon!!! :-)
2006-07-28 17:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The quickest way to talk to people is using question's.If you ask a question,you will get an answer in return.Ask where a certain class is. Try asking someone what they think about a teacher,and how to get along with them. It's simple and easy...try it.Don't think about being ditched.People just get busy with things. Your growing,nothing stays the same.
2006-07-28 17:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get into a school activity that evryone goes for try to win a couple of compititions and your good to go. OH! and if thos so called "friends" start to crawl back on their knees act like you don't know them and maitane confidence in yourself people like that! GOOD LUCK!!. I hope I was of help.
2006-07-28 17:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by alfred v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just start introducing myself to people. Or at least try to join in a conversation. All you have to do is break the ice. Not every kid in school is a monster. They won't get to know you unless you give them the chance to.
2006-07-28 17:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and be friendly to other people in the classes you have. Also, maybe at lunchtime, you could sit at another table (introduce yourself and ask if you could sit at the table). Or, be crazy at school dances like me.
2006-07-28 17:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by Sonico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋