Family & Relationships - 28 July 2006

ok so i like a guy that just barely turned 18 and don't know what to do cause i don't know if he's too old for me or not but he likes sooo many girls and don't think he likes me but i don't know what to do cause i like him and think i even love him. ANY SUGGESTIONS?

2006-07-28 17:32:02 · 9 answers · asked by parowangurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like one guy whom i don't know well. I often see him in the elevator and we don't talk to each other. How can i start the conversation first and to express myself for him. I don't wanna to lose him. Give me your hand.

2006-07-28 17:31:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 17:30:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey guys take a look at my life.?
hey i dated this guy since i was thirteen and then moved out with him at 15 got married at 16. i started cheating on him, i sord of like the other guy i think he would bring me a better future. i've been with this guy for about a year he knows i'm married. we've been in an on and off relationship. i dont know if he likes me or is just using me hes asked me before to get a divorce so we can go out seriously. but we got apart about a month ago he called me back a week ago and asked to see me i went out with him and we ended up in the back of his car and well u know why we were there so he wore a condom and i know he doesnt like that so i had a weird feeling we started doin it and later on he says have u ****** any body else? i was pissed off then he said i have i don't wanna give u any std so we should go get an hiv test i said ok. we have k.i.t. he calls me all the time to get 2gether.what do u guys think i don't know my feelings are all confused so help me. thax luvz u!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-28 17:30:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy has flirted with me before. But he can never talk with me on a personal level. I've tried before and he acts really strange. Is it because he thinks I like him and this is making it seem like he likes me if he converses. But if that's the case why flirt at all? He talks to these ladies. Has even rubbed their backs. I'm not saying I'm any prize. But these ladies are overweight and much older then he is. Does he just not want to give me the wrong impression. Why does he flirt and then act so distant?

2006-07-28 17:30:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband kept sexual wants/preferences a secret throughout our dating life---I thought we were good and had a fun sex life--but over the last 4 yrs of being married i have come to find out he is into porn where women appear to be getting raped, and he himself likes pain during sex--and i am just NOT into it at all...I want to please my husband--but when I try I am so repulsed, I no longer enjoy sex. I am no prude--I just don't associate pain with pleasure....he does--what the heck am I to do?? we have kids so I dont just want a divorce..he really is a good man too...but how can we be married and not be intimate???

2006-07-28 17:29:23 · 6 answers · asked by sosadgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

are u a real man would u fight for me?P.S I look like Jessica Simpson

2006-07-28 17:28:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 17:28:51 · 3 answers · asked by Beatriz O 1 in Singles & Dating

I was good friends w/ this guy...i'm always telling him to quit hitting on me an whenever he starts to i walk away or change the subject. We broke up three years ago. Everyone I know thinks that he's still in love with me...are they right? Now he's harassing my friends b./c i won't speak to him. I don't want to involve my man b/c i don't want him to think that i can't handle my past but i'm tired of this guys crap. And I don't want to involve the police. We got in a HUGE fight the other day and i told him that he and i had ended a long time ago an that while the friendship would be missed i didn't regret that the friendship was over as well. An still tonight he im'd me again. I didn't respond. My bf still doesn't know b/c when he called me tonight i was at work and i missed his call. Should I involve him anyway...or just hope that this guy gives up an leave the situation alone? BG

2006-07-28 17:28:15 · 2 answers · asked by BG 1 in Singles & Dating

I love her dearly. Her best friend (20+ years) is divorced. Her friend has been celibate since the divorce. She and my wife were talking, she told my wife she thought I was attractive. One thing led to another and now my wife wants me to hook up w/ her friend. Her friend is all for it. I find her friend attractive and she has a great personality. I feel very flattered however, at the same time I feel very nervous and awkward. Like I said I love my wife and would do anything to make her happy. I just don't know what to do!
Should I?
Thanks

2006-07-28 17:28:14 · 20 answers · asked by Carl D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone has a pet peeve, right? I get annoyed by guys who hack up snot in public. Or belittle me in some way. Or act like pervs.

2006-07-28 17:27:42 · 17 answers · asked by yumyum 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 17:27:39 · 13 answers · asked by fulladoubt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i totally feel this way right now and need advice, asap

2006-07-28 17:27:22 · 9 answers · asked by star bright 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what is icq is there a way I could cantact you? e-mail me or something, if you can. Where do u live I live in Church Hill.

2006-07-28 17:27:03 · 1 answers · asked by beachchic705 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 17:26:58 · 6 answers · asked by headbanger x 2 in Friends

2006-07-28 17:26:53 · 7 answers · asked by USAgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's dad, lets call him Steve, thinks that we (my boyfriend and I) should get married even though we're still in college. We've told him before that we are just not ready, but he continues to persistantly badger us about it. It's getting annoying. We don't talk to him often because he lives in a different state and we see him even less. My boyfried and I have talked about marriage and we agree that we want to wait until we are out of college. (We are sophmores now) How do I convince Steve that we are not ready and that it's really none of his business anyway??

2006-07-28 17:26:34 · 3 answers · asked by Katy] in arkansas 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont know what it means either

2006-07-28 17:26:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has the laziest most worthless kids I have ever met. They move in and out of his house like a revolving door. His son is an alcoholic with no drivers license and his daughter is lazy. She is married and uses the emergency room as a doctors office, always going in for this that and the other.She cant go to the doctor like the rest of us. She is the queen of filth. Never does the dishes or cleans house & is always running around in the car shopping Her dad gave her a credit card to help her out and she maxed it out and let it go to collections, then asked him for a loan. He had no idea it had gone to collections and he had to bargain to pay it off. Her husband is a drunk and they moved in with their kids because they cannot pay their bills. Her husband had an excellent job working for Catipillar and just quit out of the blue. Should I say what is on my mind or hold my breath. I adore him heart and soul, but these kids are a mess. It kills me to watch this **** go on.

2006-07-28 17:26:01 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

2006-07-28 17:25:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 17:25:15 · 5 answers · asked by tanya d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 17:25:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok people, I talked to the boy I liked and I told him I really liked him. Only problem is that he said "I did like you alot before we became really good friends now I just think it would be weird if we hooked up." Yeah ok fair enough, so I told myself "yeah w/e give up." Well lets just say its alot harder then I thought and I really wanna try to convince him to like me again but..I dont know how..a lil help maybe?

2006-07-28 17:24:26 · 2 answers · asked by chicka!! 1 in Singles & Dating

physical or mental?
Note: your chances of getting 10 points are better if you tell me what you like in her personality as opposed to something like big boobs.

2006-07-28 17:22:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my wife but the sex sucks i need some action

2006-07-28 17:22:52 · 35 answers · asked by gary m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 19 year old single mum and i was recently seeing a guy.. we got on really well and i thought things were goin great.. my son was starting to like him heaps too and i decided that i had to talk to the guy to see where he wanted the relationship to go.. he told me that if i didnt have a kid there wouldnt be a problem with us having a relationship but as i did there was no chance.. he still wants to be friends.. what should i do?

2006-07-28 17:22:26 · 9 answers · asked by MelbMummi 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a new guy and still haven't done anything sexually. What would you think if a girl you just started dating asked you to get tested (for HIV/ other STD's). Would you be honest with her?

While I would appreciate the response from younger people, I prefer those from 18 and older. Thanks.

2006-07-28 17:21:47 · 33 answers · asked by JC 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 17:21:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Perferably female. I'd like someone who could write me at least once a week about one to two pages. I wouldn't mind sending gifts or care packages for birthdays and Christmas. I don't want anything perverse or a relationship. I just like real mail. Anyone who is an artist has an advantage b/c I wouldn't mind exchanging some artwork too but it is not required. Give me a short message and leave your e-mail if you are interested. Please don't leave your mailing address here. It's not a safe idea.

2006-07-28 17:19:51 · 2 answers · asked by if i only knew 3 in Friends

what if u like someone u no but u have never seen them ever in ur life and lives in a different state what would u do??

2006-07-28 17:19:24 · 9 answers · asked by armpitt_spray44350 1 in Friends