Do you not say a word about your boyfriends adult children or do you let it out?

Question

My boyfriend has the laziest most worthless kids I have ever met. They move in and out of his house like a revolving door. His son is an alcoholic with no drivers license and his daughter is lazy. She is married and uses the emergency room as a doctors office, always going in for this that and the other.She cant go to the doctor like the rest of us. She is the queen of filth. Never does the dishes or cleans house & is always running around in the car shopping Her dad gave her a credit card to help her out and she maxed it out and let it go to collections, then asked him for a loan. He had no idea it had gone to collections and he had to bargain to pay it off. Her husband is a drunk and they moved in with their kids because they cannot pay their bills. Her husband had an excellent job working for Catipillar and just quit out of the blue. Should I say what is on my mind or hold my breath. I adore him heart and soul, but these kids are a mess. It kills me to watch this **** go on.

I do not live with him. Its almost more than I can hold in and I have been told to shut up more than once. I just adore him so.

Answer 1

If he is putting up with all this crap and your not stuck in the same house dealing with this bs then it probably won't make a difference to say anything.
Just be there when he finally gets sick of it and let him know he is in the right to be done with them.