2006-07-28 17:25:15 · 5 answers · asked by tanya d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you kind of hit the nail on the head. It is not just rejection per se, but the fear that they will be rejected in an embarrassing and/or cruel way (I.E.: that you will make a scene).
They are also afraid that you might have a big, mean, jealous boyfriend who will beat them up.
And they are afraid that you might be a mean spirited person who will make trouble for them if you find them not attractive enough for you (I.E.: accuse them of harassment, spread rumors, call the police, etc.).
2006-07-28 17:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know. I am single and I just find it hard to introduce myself to men because I guess I have the fear that they have some type of issue going on. I guess I would need an open mind and just to relax when I meet a guy. Maybe if a guy came at me with some respect and not talk to me like I was some sort of chicken head then maybe I could relax.
2006-07-29 00:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by tsij 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience that the attractiveness of the woman is inversely proportional to the meanness of the rejection. Well, maybe meanness is too strong. Thoughtlessness, maybe. Like brushing a crumb off her blouse.
2006-07-29 00:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ordinary guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Beautiful!
I would be happy to take you out to dinner tonight.
I would insist even if you deny first.
2006-07-29 00:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by ManavManu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not scared
2006-07-29 00:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by ksneon66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋