my wife and i have been married 11 years. i have a new job and she seems very jeaoulous that i work around mostly women. i have to interact with them, meet with them and attend events with them. she has accused me of having an afair, which is totally ridiculous and has instructed one of our children to read my emails at work and look through my desk. last night, i went outside and she had taken some trash to my truck. she saw a paper from work on my dash, and a piece of note paper with a note written on it, and she was standing there reading it. i asked her if she needed something and she becamse defensive and said she was just looking. i can't stand people touching my stuff, even if it's something that belongs to the both of us, and she knows this. i feel like she's looking for something to catch me at. she has driven my truck before and all of my papers have been scattered about as if she's looking for something.
What can I do? What can i say? What should I do?
2006-07-20
01:40:42
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Marriage & Divorce