I was with my gf for 7months and i loved her to bits. But she said she needed a break as we couldnt see each other enought. She just want to pass her hairdressing course, and then start again. Should i get back with her or should i move on.
2006-07-20 01:42:24 · 6 answers · asked by Steve9000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you still love her you are obviously not too serious about anyone else right now so I would tell her that you are still willing to see her on a casual basis but leave yourself open so that if she can't commit to you you won't be as hurt. some people do just need a break to figure things out and realize that what they had is what they want. I think in a short period of time you will be able to tell if she is serious this time or is just looking to fill time.Maybe she just wanted to be able to give all of her energy to the relationship and finishing school would do that for her but on the other hand be careful and watch for clues that she is wanting other people.Be good to YOU first then her
2006-07-20 01:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by kabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the break but move on with other ppl too. Dont get hung up. If u eventually end up still loving eachother then get back together but the "lets take a break' excuse is very lame. She probs just bored with u and she wants to c other ppl, but doesnt know how to say it. She wants u to be there as a safety net incase thing fall apart, which she kinda knows it will. Leaving a great guy just for something casual, that might work is something hard to do, if u know u got a safety net, then your not really that bothered. This is just one scenario that might happen, the question I should actually ask or u should ask yourself, do u want someone to use u in a way like that?
I vote for move on, its hard, but its kinda the only option u have.
She just basically dumped u in a sugarcoated way.
If u loved her and she loved u, u would both agree to give eachother enough space and support to pass her course.
Not end it completely.
2006-07-20 02:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Ex. is your Ex. for a reason. She might need a 'break'...but 87% of couples DON'T get back together after a 'break'.
You'll find someone even better...with a bit of hard looking.=]
2006-07-20 02:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her finish her hairdressing course. then the 2 of you should sit down and have a good long talk about what both of you expect in your relationship.
2006-07-20 02:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by chapes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her have the break she wants. After that, if you both still want to get back together, then do that
2006-07-20 01:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by haze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to move on. Her excuse to take a break was dumb....no doubt....move on.
2006-07-20 01:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by irishME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋