Family & Relationships - 18 July 2006

This past weekend, I went out with my friends and family. I got back in the house around 1am, and went to bed. That morning my husband refused to look at me and told me that I made him sick. Confused, I asked him why was he so mad at me. He told me that I reminded him of his ex wife who use to leave stay gone for days at a time. He knows that I am NOTHING like her, so I was offended and sad. Later that day he told me that when I go out, it's like saying that he and the kids are not good enough company for me. Now, we have been married for 5 months and this is my 1ST time going out with my friends and family without him! He tells me that now that I am married, I no longer have anything in common with my single family members and friends. He says that its not fair for me to go out, when he doesn't go anywhere. That's his choice! I have no problem with him going out! Because of how cold he was to me when I got back home, I am kind of scared of ever going back out again. Is that fair?

2006-07-18 06:00:40 · 25 answers · asked by candy0813 3 in Marriage & Divorce

(To a teacher, relative, preacher, doctor, etc. - you get the point!)

2006-07-18 06:00:15 · 15 answers · asked by oaksterdamhippiechick 5 in Family

I wuz in the store lookn at magazines and books. I seen this book that said 101 Different Ways To Say I Love U. Do u thnk that book is good?Should i use a book to say i luv u?

2006-07-18 05:59:22 · 1 answers · asked by dagirl10149 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and I'm not really big or old lookin, so I guess girls just ignore, which is kinda depressing. I try, but they don't want to have anything to do with me, I don't really think im ugly or anything, but I really need help in finding girls to get to know. Not for sex or anything, just to have a relationship with.

2006-07-18 05:58:36 · 4 answers · asked by musicfreak4692 1 in Singles & Dating

my name? If so, if we say that we are separted can we avoid this?

2006-07-18 05:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm feeling a little down in the dumps and need a good laugh:)

2006-07-18 05:57:35 · 4 answers · asked by aluminum22rocker 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 15 years old, and I still feel very attachted to my parents. I can barely spend a week away from them with my grandparents without feeling lonely. Instead of wanting to do things with friends on weekends, I look forward to spending time with my parents. Am I weird? What do you think?

2006-07-18 05:57:21 · 16 answers · asked by beader1990 1 in Family

i am 34 and just became single again. i have no friends outside of work, where do i start? i'm a very shy person and tend to lean toward the Hispanic men, although it has proved to be my downfall. please help if u can

2006-07-18 05:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by Day Lover 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.i have two friends who right now are in a little dilema.I am kinda in the middle of it, but don't want to be.to make it easier i''l call them (A) & (B)
The thing is that we all grew up together, along with some other close friends.Well,(A) kinda developed a crush on one of of our close guy friends.I think because everyone has been telling her that they would make a cute couple.I'm guessing she really believes it now.So anyways,one night me and (B) went out with him and some other guys.We had a good time i guess, and we all had a few drinks.Few,as in 'the guy' and (B) ended up getting a little crazy(no sex).So when (B) decided to tell (A) about what happened,she didn't realize (A) would get mad.And now,they're bringing ME into this.
(A) said that it sucks because she has a "special" relationship with him(they flirt alot).And out of all ppl she didn't think any of us would hook up with him.
(B)said she wasn't all there.And she didn't know it would bug her.
What can i tell them?

2006-07-18 05:56:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-18 05:55:37 · 15 answers · asked by El Luigy 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife has had depression for the last 8 years, and she has failed to ever do anything about it. She tried medication and counseling for a short time, but has never really done anything about it. This caused a major strain on our marriage. After the last 8 years, I had enough and filed for the divorce (I am the cause and blame for everything, and she wouldn't admit her illness and treat it). She has now started to take her necessary meds and she is a completely different person. She reminds me of the woman I married, and I am having second thoughts and I would like to reconcile. I have dropped some subtle hints that I am leaning this way, but she hasn't decided to talk about it. We have had regular conversations and the mood in the house has been very upbeat. I'm not sure if she really wants the divorce, but I don't think I am the one who can bring up the reconcilitation (becasue I was the one who filed). Any heartfellt advice that you can give me would be GREATLY appreciated!

2006-07-18 05:55:37 · 19 answers · asked by Jim S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 23 he is 39. But he doesnt act it I really have fallen for him and he treats me better that anyone ever has. But I really worry about the age diffrence will it become a problem later on?

2006-07-18 05:55:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it a crime to be this hot

2006-07-18 05:55:24 · 19 answers · asked by ~Green eyes~ 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think I should do. He said he would never do it again...should I trust him again and sort out our marrage?

2006-07-18 05:55:07 · 6 answers · asked by fornewsh1@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate fourplay. it bored me. what the deal be? Holla at a lova!!!!!!!!

2006-07-18 05:55:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 05:54:47 · 1 answers · asked by sharethalove 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 05:53:36 · 15 answers · asked by jet2002jet2002 2 in Singles & Dating

but i also cheated on him

2006-07-18 05:53:26 · 18 answers · asked by ~Green eyes~ 1 in Friends

I just got married five months ago, and my husband is having a hard time relating to my son. My husband is a Christian who believes in spankings and whippings. My husband also came into the marriage with his five yr old son. I notice that my husband beats my four yr old son for things that HIS son has done and didn't get anything other than a warning about. My son tries to have conversations with my husband,and my husband acts disinterested, and aloof. Yesterday, my son went to hug his stepdad when he got home from work, and my husband acted as though he didn't see him, and as my son turned away I snapped. I asked him how could he not see my son trying to give him a hug? He just shugged his shoulders. The only time he talks to him is when he is threatening to whip him, telling him to clean his room, or telling him to get away from me and stop being a "mothers boy". He comes home anxious to know about any "bad things" that my son has done. I am walking around on pins and needles, help?

2006-07-18 05:52:12 · 13 answers · asked by candy0813 3 in Family

It is 101 in maryland for goodness sacks! Gotta stay cool. Whats it like there?

2006-07-18 05:51:56 · 36 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Singles & Dating

how did your work day actually go today

2006-07-18 05:51:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

wat does it mean wen a guy tells me that he is fallin 4 me and he likes it does that mean that he loves me or wat

2006-07-18 05:51:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 05:50:57 · 60 answers · asked by ~Green eyes~ 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are a single mother with a young child, live in the US, don't have a boyfriend, and are in need of small financial help, then tell me your story. Any small amount helps, right?

2006-07-18 05:50:56 · 9 answers · asked by epicrown 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was offered a modeling contract with model productions atlanta and i accepted. I have casting cards...but i am about to apply for a job and have had no experience in the modeling field. Only beauty pageants, what would a sample models resume look like , end especially mine with no experience?

2006-07-18 05:50:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

old friend from the late 60's....originally from Atlanta....married and divorced (Atkins last name)......had gov't job in Houston (late 70's) and then transferred to Florida....had a son from marriage....she should be in her 50's...may have married again in Florida....tell.her, her Ex-Green Beret friend from Texas looking for her

2006-07-18 05:50:32 · 1 answers · asked by Mickey Mantle 5 in Friends

someone told me that getting married and starting a family is very troublesom. but staying single can be lonely.

2006-07-18 05:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some creative ways you punish your children? Nothing seems to work for my son. I have had bad/good jars, naughty chairs, corner, putting him to bed early, talking to him, all sorts of stuff. Nothing works!

2006-07-18 05:48:11 · 17 answers · asked by jeanlovesdan 1 in Family

i told this girl i liked her and she took it as me asking her out now her parents are telling people that we're together. i dont want to go out with her, but supposedly shes really excited i dont kno what i should do. i am getting ****** in the a

2006-07-18 05:47:55 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend Jennifer loves you! How could she go about being your friend or maybe hanging out with you? She's straight but is looking for a farting partner.

2006-07-18 05:47:32 · 5 answers · asked by Drea 2 in Friends