someone told me that getting married and starting a family is very troublesom. but staying single can be lonely.
2006-07-18 05:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's better to stay single until you meet someone who you are ready and willing to marry.
2006-07-18 05:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like Chris Rock once said:
-- Married and Bored
-- Single and Lonely
Both have their ups and downs, but i think getting married has many rewards: if you are lucky enough to find the person who you think is worthy enough to share your life with, then i think getting married is a good idea: of course, starting a family is troublesome for everyon, especially couples who are as young as 18 - but no-one is born a perfect wife or mother or father....and people do say that once you have a family, you happiness is doubled
But staying single can be fun: you don't have anthing anchoring you from making new relationships and if you get 'bored' as people often do, you can move on....you are as free as a bird. But soon enough you'll be too old for the game....
Either way, you often have to sacrifice some things in life to experience other things....such is the way of life!!
2006-07-18 06:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by Angel_like 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my thirties and have found as I get older that the answer to this question depends on who is asking.
My married friends all agree that they miss single life and the freedom of not having a partner and children.
My single friends are all envious of the closeness and love that come from having a family around you.
I think the answer is that 'the grass is always greener in the other Field'. Which ever you do there will be good points and there will be regrets, so just live for the moment and see where it takes you.
2006-07-18 06:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by beflihippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after years of saying that i wouldn't, i met someone about two years ago and we got married in february. i would say that if you are getting married because you are lonely or broke or bored, then stay single. if you are in love with someone, but are avoiding marriage only because it's troublesome, then get married.
from personal experience, it's not easy to get married - everything changes... you grocery shop more and have to do more house cleaning, your stuff gets moved around the house, the toilet lid is never down, someone is always around and sees all of your bad habits. but, on the flip side, it's amazing to have someone that you trust and love around, there is someone there to help with household chores, fix-it projects, backaches, errands, cooking, and to listen to your problems.
marriage takes away the freedom that you have in singleness, but when you are ready, the choice to relinquish that freedom will tell you that you are truly ready to get married. you can't rush this decision. too many people do and too many people are divorced or divorcing. if you have any hesitations about marriage, then don't do it. singleness is a freedom you won't have again once you choose to marry. enjoy it while you can.
2006-07-18 06:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by erika w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some, better to stay single. For others, better to be married.
2016-03-26 22:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by Carmella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay single and have fun untill your mature enough to start a family. Most people werent mature enough to get start a family and wish they were young and having fun. Atleast thats what i am doing and how i feel.
2006-07-18 05:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by fletch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how old you are and whether or not you are with the right person and ready to get married. I think when you are with the right person you'll just know
2006-07-18 05:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends upon the time.
2006-07-18 05:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋