but i also cheated on him
2006-07-18 05:53:26 · 18 answers · asked by ~Green eyes~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Does not sound like either of you are ready to settle down. Bottom line is don't commit to anyone unless your really mean it. If you both really do mean it, don't take it lightly..this is the last go of it and if either of you don't abide by being faithful, you will not only lose respect for each other, but much worse...you will lose respect for yourselves. Don't commit if you are not ready for it!
2006-07-18 05:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have to ask yourself are why did you cheat on him and what do you think made him cheat on you and the number of time has this been done. If it's all a game, and you two are not serious with each other, then trust will not exist so easily and your relationship is out d window. What you can do is try to talk to him about where you guys stand. See what comes out of it unless you want to hire an investigator to tail him everywhere. :) Check and see how he feels about the situation.
2006-07-18 09:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by DusktilDawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay , Ones you and him CHEAT there are reason's for that. What only you and him know. But take it from a former woman who has had a go at these things before ones you start you will always do this till you meet the man for you. If that is him i think you are wrong because if you both really cared for one another you would not have done it to begin with. So in all honest ones you go there ...you will never go back and that will be a hard relationship to work out and move on.
2006-07-18 06:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all do respect, you both should move on and get a new start. Check on what prompted you to cheat, see what you can do to change it. It will do you a lot of good in the long run to get a hold of your impulses. Think things through and find someone you really care about and be respectful and kind to him. Love is a choice to put someone else's needs before your own (this includes not cheating on them). If you can't do this with someone then don't commit and don't tell them you love them. Just date a while until you get things figured out. Get to know different kinds of people.
Best wishes.
2006-07-18 05:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that neither one of you should be trusted...not to be rude but seriously. He must not have been giving you what you needed in the first place if you had to cheat on him to get it. So I think that you shouldn't trust him and he shouldn't trust you. But you should both still try and work things out. Tell the other why you did what you did and try to work on giving each other what you need. If that doesn't get anywhere then I guess you both need to find other people and try not to cheat on them.. I really hope that things work out for you.
2006-07-18 06:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is bout cheating, if you're gonna cheat, end the relationship. Cause if youre found out, things will never be the same, cause all that trust that the both of you have built, dissipates almost immediately. Heres what, talk to him, find out what he wants out of the relationship now. Counselling, if youre really serious about things going back the way they use to be. The both of you cant do it yourselves. Why did the both of you cheat anyway? Sounds to me that you both were dissatisfied!!
2006-07-18 05:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a weird situation but. NO u cant and he prolly cant trust u so u both are in a bad situation cause that's what makes a good relationship. knowing that other wont cheat. but it looks like u both have the same problem.i think u need to talk to him about not cheating and both of u think that about if u really wanna be together cause u both are cheaters.
2006-07-18 06:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by bignbeautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it sounds like you guys are playing games, so if you want to be serious than be serious. Cheating on people really isn't a smart idea, you can catch STD's that way. If you guys want to play then don't be an item. Should he trust you? Should you guys trust each other? That is something you have to ask yourself.
2006-07-18 05:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by hateizmybestfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait you both cheated on each other...? then why are you two together then? If you were both sorry and promised to never do it again then I'd be a little sketchy about being with him b/c it could happen again to the both of you...
2006-07-18 05:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by dancer1883 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its the first time u get cheated, u better give him a chance.
coz there may be a valid reason for him to explain or he might
have done it unwillingly or he may still be in love with u.
u know how u love him. so u better forgive him and in that he will understand ur love for him and love u back more than before.
good luck for u both be together and live a cherished life.
2006-07-18 06:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by schwarz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋