my bf just asked me to have sex with him wat should i do?

Answer 1

if you need to ask the answer is no

Answer 2

Many women regret their first time, either because they later realize they weren't really ready or because they later wish it was someone else that they lost their viginity with.

This is a question that should be answered by yourself, not by someone else. And if you do decide to go through with it, make sure that you are prepared for all of the possible consequences of sex, like pregnancy and STDs.

Answer 3

I dont know how old you are but you'll have sex when you're ready. If you're ready, make sure you use birth control and condoms, I got pregnant on birth control pills twice. Dont take any chances with your health, physically or emotionally...and always remember, the first time should be special, make sure it's what you really want and dont let anyone pressure you.

Answer 4

Too many variables and not enough information to give advice. Make sure you are old enough. IE 18 or older. Make sure protection is available and USED. Make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. And finally, if he has to ask, and it is not just entered into as a natural act, then NO, don't do it.

Answer 5

Any guy who loves you and who is worth you won't pressure you. You need to be ready emotionally for the commitment and the possible consequences of sex. Remember, sex is the biggest thing that two people can do together, so do it with someone that you love and who loves you.

Answer 6

If you are ready to have sex, then go ahead; however, it sounds as though you are not ready or otherwise you would not be on here asking for our opinions. Just explain to him that you are not ready to take that step and that you feel as though you all should wait a bit longer. If he truly cares for you, he will understand.

Answer 7

I don't think you should. But if you really want to take the necessary precautions . Safe Sex or no sex . Your choice. And if this guy is asking for sex maybe you should think of where this relationship is going .

Answer 8

It all depends on you...what you have to think about is whether or not your ready for any possible consequences that you could recieve. Losing your virginity is a (for some people Im not sure for you ) big thing once its gone you cant get it back so if you dont want to then dont, dont let him pressure you if youre not ready.

Answer 9

No one can decide that for you. Believe me think about it long and hard first, I don't have my virginity and I am so pissed I lost it. But it was my choice, and it was a wrong one. I would give anything to have it back, and I can say that and I'm 19. Please just think about it. And this isn't coming from a so-called lame or dork. I party hard, always been popular, so believe me when I tell you it is not worth it.

Answer 10

How old are you first of all. If you are too young to understand the full spectrum of what may happen, then you make him wait especially if you are a virgin. Hold on to your innocence as long as possible. However, if you are old enought o know and you have already been active, then you have to decide what is right for yours and his relationship.

Answer 11

You seem really uncertain about this. Chances are you aren't meant to be. Just keep in mind you could get pregnant. If you feel so uncertain just tell your boyfriend you want to wait. If he is understanding enough he will understand. If he doesn't understand, then dump him. He's probably just in this for the kicks.