Family & Relationships - 17 July 2006

Following from earlier Q... How on earth can a woman say a guy who batters her loves her and how can she love .


This makes no logical sense.


I am only attracted to girls that would make a good friends, ie into the same stuff and lots of fun and also sexy so want to make out and touch them up and get touched back.

While I can understand a girl being scared of a bully my mind can't comprehend why you would develop feelings for one.


If someone is a bully I hate them, or part of a bully organisation... I would want to cripple, disfigure or kill them... never love them...

So why do girls not stab anyone who tries to abuse them (I dont mean a fight or lovers tiff, but someon who brutalises them).


If scared why not wait till they aere asleep then slit their throat. If any ppolice have a problem with that, not to give up but do them to and any threat life form who intends to hurt you as anyone who would wan to hurt you would be clearly evil. Not human

2006-07-17 09:36:03 · 6 answers · asked by Joey 4 in Singles & Dating

u kno who u r and u gotta tell me wats running thru yur mind right now...by the way nice singing voice...i dont kno y u think its so bad.

2006-07-17 09:35:51 · 25 answers · asked by scottishmohawk 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend recently gained custody of his 3 children 18 yr old son, 16 yr old son and 13 yr old daughter. He recently bought a three bedroom condo and said that he would let the boys have their own room and let his daughter share his bedroom with him. I told him that was not a good idea....so, he let the boys share a bedroom, boyfriend has his own bedroom and his daughter has hers.....Today, 4 months later he tells me that his daughter was suffering from a sinus problem and slept with him last night......he was out and about this morning and said oh yeah she was still sleeping when I left her.......Am I making a big deal out of this? or is this a normal father, daughter relationship?

2006-07-17 09:35:40 · 34 answers · asked by Ebonee 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Makeup can make any chick look decent. But where are all the natural beauties? I just saw this pic today of Eva Longoria and I almost threw up. She really had me fooled.

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y236/bogobogo/longoria_1.jpg

2006-07-17 09:35:32 · 8 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 09:35:01 · 6 answers · asked by dsgc05™ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my daughter gets mad at me if i buy something for the boys (her 2 younger brothers that live at home) that she didn't get when she was little. she is 28 yrs old and lives with her gf who pampers her to death and treats her like a baby. she keeps trying to put me on guilt trips because we were poor when she was little. i can't help it. i did the best i could and give her everything that i could and what i couldn't give material wise i tried to make up for with love. she is breaking my heart. i call her but she doesn't have much to say. i go see her, take her out and do things but she won't call me. she won't come to see me and i feel like it is just me making an effort and she don't. i tried to talk to her about it and she just gets mad. i imagine that her gf is telling her stuff like "why didn't she do that for you" etc...trying to keep us at a distance because she is truly that jealous of anyone that is around my daughter. you can't say anything about that either or she gets mad. my daughter has a lot of potential but barely scrapes by either because she is too jealous to work less than 5 miles from her gf or visa-versa and thats not my problem. she is being held back regardless but then if their light bill needs paid or if she needs to go to the doctor, then she calls good ole mom to the rescue. i'm not a nagging mother that complains that her kids don't call but is it fair that she just calls on me to bail her out of her situations of her own making and then try to put me on guilt trips over doing for the boys. so i have quit calling or visiting her thinking she might get the message. its been 3 months and nothing. the boys have talked to her making the effort as i did but not even a "tell mom i said hello" nothing.
what can i do. i am not rich by no means but even if i was i would not try to buy her love

2006-07-17 09:34:01 · 15 answers · asked by Enigma 6 in Family

help i need help i deleted his e-mail by mastake and i feel really bad!! so matt plez e-maiul me again and srry and plez e-mail me again if there is anyone that nos were he is plez tell me
thanx
sassymamma

2006-07-17 09:33:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you son or daughter came home with a bi-racial date, what would your response be?

2006-07-17 09:33:21 · 21 answers · asked by pamela_d_99 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 09:33:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-17 09:33:14 · 16 answers · asked by sookieruthie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

*Personality or Looks*



I think a funny guy is more attractive than nice abs hehe

2006-07-17 09:31:40 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if their man looked at porn?

2006-07-17 09:30:38 · 21 answers · asked by sookieruthie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-17 09:30:13 · 5 answers · asked by sweety100982 1 in Family

2006-07-17 09:29:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do they grow out of it?

2006-07-17 09:29:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we have been marry 15 year one son 12 this will be a good chance to get away

2006-07-17 09:29:13 · 5 answers · asked by ahrtracy13 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why would a guy who just wants to be friends (although he wouldn't mind being friends with benefits) be sad, when I mention another guy? He doesn't want a commitment or anything. He's actually seeing someone else, although it's not serious. He wanted to know if the new guy was something long-term or not. I just don't get why it would matter to him.

2006-07-17 09:28:19 · 21 answers · asked by Mustang L 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey wuz up what ya doing?

2006-07-17 09:28:16 · 4 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 09:28:16 · 3 answers · asked by strawberry 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 09:26:02 · 5 answers · asked by cgoodspeed24 1 in Friends

2006-07-17 09:25:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My man and I have been dating for almost 6 months and things seem like they are headed in the direction of love but neither of us have actually said it to each other verbatim. He said that to me in the midst of holding me in his arms so I'm kind of wondering if that means he loves me.

2006-07-17 09:25:21 · 17 answers · asked by waambulance 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 09:25:19 · 11 answers · asked by aznflippgurl 5 in Singles & Dating

well the reason is my friend is more in to him than i do. but i do like him a lot.

2006-07-17 09:24:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my friend lied to me and got mad at me. well she says she can never forgive me. and we had a great friendship, but she is making fun of me and hurting my feelings more than anyone in teh world. i forgive her, but i dont want to be in a fight but i serioulsy dont think shell ever not be mad at me what do you think? please help me

2006-07-17 09:23:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't know what to do, any advice is appreciated. I know it is not like the real thing, but he showed his d** on web cam, he called this girl sweetheart, darling, lovely, and so forth.
He told her over and over that he loved her. He made many sexual comments, asked her to flash him, said he wanted to see her when she changed her clothes, made plans to go to a hotel with her, told her she has the most beautiful eyes he has ever seen, said he dreams about her and wishes the dreams would come true. He told her not to worry about me cause our marriage is over anyway, and the list goes on.
She and him got in a fight anf
are not talking anymore, so she sent me all the yahoo archives that she had. So I have the proof.
He lies to me and says that she changed it all to make him look bad, but I know it was him because I know how he talks, mispells words and so on. He says well she set it up cause she knows how I talk.
I want to leave but have no where to go, no money, no car and 4 kids.

2006-07-17 09:23:11 · 13 answers · asked by countrygrl278 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been taking birthcontrol for a few months now and for the past month or so it seems my sex drive, and ability has continually been going down hill.

2006-07-17 09:22:47 · 13 answers · asked by wOot 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 09:22:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 09:22:35 · 7 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When it comes to giving & receiving gifts, does the mere fact that "it was the thought that counts" really suffice enough to make a gift good?

I am not being ungrateful towards a real gift I have received or anything - just wanting your thoughts about whether that sentence holds true, or is it just a "safety" line you can use for otherwise horrible gifts.

2006-07-17 09:22:07 · 3 answers · asked by Answers Anyone 4 in Friends