Family & Relationships - 17 July 2006

me how they met & how they went places while she was in Chicgao too see him and all of that. Of course, he had an explanation about that as well. Although, i got her info off of his computer mind you. How did it get there? He told me that somebody from his job must've put it there too try and set him up. See, he had a fire in the apartment above his at the time and so, his place suffered a lot of water damage from it. He had some people from his job come by too help him clean up and throw away stuff - like clothes for example. And, he mentioned that some of the people their was using his computer too check their e-mails. Now, in the letter she had mentioned some personal things that only someone that was actually in his place would know. I really didn't believe him then either. One of my personal garments were left hanging in his closet. He tells me that he had too throw it out along w/ some other clothing items because of water damage. Now, in her letter she mentions that she had cut

2006-07-17 11:30:58 · 14 answers · asked by JEANNIE2525 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Jut got out of relationship, no hard feeling or baggae on my behalf and I'm not bitter. Ready to casually date, I know I'm not ready for a relationship, but I would like to date. Ex and I agreed to be friends and that is it. I'm not emotionally attched either. Any advice for dating again.

2006-07-17 11:30:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 11:30:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Husband has anxiety when it comes to sex, we've been married 3 years and he has never lasted longer than 5 minutes, most of the time less than 1 minute. He usually pleases me through oral, but for the most part he is awkward in bed.....I do the lingerie, oils, dirty talk, etc, even bought him books, but nothing is changing. He says sex is not that important to him and that he doesn't really care about it that much. I've gotten very frustrated and angry through the years and told him I didn't want to be tempted to leave because he didn't care about pleasing me sexually.....also, I had a girl on girl experience before I met him, I told him about it, and he gets excited about that and loves to bring it up in the bedroom. It's not the same for me, so I ask him not to dwell on it. When he doesn't talk about it he's a different lover - awkward. He doesn't watch porn, and we have no internet at home, he isn't cheating I know for a fact. It's been 4 weeks since the last time we had sex. Help!

2006-07-17 11:30:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love him and i want him to follow his dreams but i also want the relationship to work. I just want to be a good girlfriend, but i dont want to feel stupid if i let him go and the relationship goes down hill from there. he's debating if he'll leave because he doesn't want to lose me,. help sos!!

2006-07-17 11:29:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 11:28:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well believe this or not, Ive had a yahoo personal online now for like EIGHT YEARS.. or something. I signed up and on and did it when it was free, before they ever got greedy and started charging. For the longest time I had it for free and was able to change my ad countless times and had tons of responses. I still have almost 3,000 responses some unread in there, and I can't seen their yahoo name now anyway so I couldnt access it, by the time i do, they will probably be married, like you. LOLOL Who knows you probably answered me.

I know of some people who met online and they are also now divorced. One woman left her state (always a DUMB thing to do) to be with some guy in Ohio, had a kid with him, he is verbally abusive so she moved back to CA and is living with her mom and has brought her kid with her.

The woman she is living with is my best friend at work, a lovely, enlightened, beautiful spiritual (non religious) woman.

I LOL'ed when you mentioned the "hunter" reference..yes it would be something I couldn't tolerate, thats for sure.

I DO know what you mean about being able to pick and choose through people.. but the thing is.. is what we want ever what we really need? Ive asked myself that countless times. and so many men online are wacked out of their skull, RUDE as hell, and use their computer as a way to argue, vent and feel superior to someone else by smashing them down with words. Do you have any FRIENDS.. LOL

2006-07-17 11:27:25 · 2 answers · asked by unknowncomposer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 11:27:24 · 7 answers · asked by *boss lady* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i have this so called friend whos boyfriend treats her like shittt its terrible he cheats on her theen tellls her shes the only one for him blah blah.. so today he starts with me nd my other friend britt who are michelles best friends she doesnt even stand up to him she lets him call us everyname in the book.. she doesnt get it hes a scumbag. i just wanna know why she would chose him over her frineds who have been there with her through everything..

2006-07-17 11:26:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

pleaaaaaaaaaaaaasssseeee!!! give me sites that help our homework... study sites... for the level of 9th grade + pleaaaaaaaaasssseee!! i need it to help others and myself in hiiGh schooL!!!

all the subjects in high schoool

2006-07-17 11:26:32 · 4 answers · asked by rockist_angel 1 in Singles & Dating

AND WHAT THE F_CK DO I HAVE TO DO? HOLY F'N SH_T I'M GETTING SICK OF THIS....

2006-07-17 11:26:28 · 15 answers · asked by MnKLmT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby passed away on fathers day of this year. I think i am dealing with it well I have my moments where i cry and i really really miss him still but i am lonley and long for a guys arms to be around me. Is it ok to seek out a relationship this early? How long should I wait before dating again? Ok I should clarify alittle here! I am not looking for a new husband or marriage. I am just wanting to go out and have the security and intimacy of having a guy. I am not a one night stand person so no I am not looking for sex nor would i give it out to just anybody. I feel like this is what i want but and worried that others may be offended. I have been talking to a guy friend for a few weeks and he wants to meet he understands my situation and that i need to take it slow. he is very sweet.

2006-07-17 11:25:38 · 21 answers · asked by swtbbygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

does size really matter to you or is it just about how u use it

2006-07-17 11:25:13 · 30 answers · asked by ficky14 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife got mad at me because i didn't wanna go over to her mom's house. I said i didn't wanna go, and she argued that's not a good excuse. I then said that I'm tired and i just wanna relax in my house, and she got mad. She also said that if we lived near my mom and she didn't wanna go, how would i feel, I then told her, but we don't live near my mom and i don't think we ever will. Point to take into consideration, my family lives in california, we live in south carolina, i moved here so she could be near her mom because that's what she wanted. Did I do something wrong?

2006-07-17 11:24:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-17 11:22:56 · 7 answers · asked by Daviyah G 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 11:22:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 11:22:37 · 4 answers · asked by melinda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a myspace freak my family tells me that im a myspace freak im on 24/7!!!! i love myspace because its a way 2 talk 2 my friends and a way 2 meet new people!!!!!!!

2006-07-17 11:21:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do you like it better when guys shave there pubes all off or all natural

2006-07-17 11:21:20 · 16 answers · asked by ficky14 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't think it is because it doesn't show any respect at all! Please provide a reason with your answer. Thanks

2006-07-17 11:20:49 · 25 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

just curious since i am a newlywed i wanna surprise mah husband but sshhhh!!

2006-07-17 11:20:47 · 6 answers · asked by SCOOBY CHIK 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many of u r still with ur bf from when u were young?! If so, how old were u when u met?
Did u ever break up?

2006-07-17 11:20:02 · 2 answers · asked by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok theres this girl @ my skool that i have liked for a few years during summer skool we talked alittle and then i began to lust her and i think she might like me to but i'm sure i got her number and i e-mail her to call me last and she did and i choked and couldn't ask her out what should i do.

2006-07-17 11:18:58 · 24 answers · asked by Tazzy14 1 in Friends

I'm just starting middleschool THIS year.And it will be REALY hardfor me because i'm shy and a LOT of people dont talk to me and i dont know why.But for me its hard to make friends.But my parents wanna move to north carolina in like after my b-day in like october.Near christmas and ALL these holidays.I mean they are looking at a realy nice house.But i dont wanna be away from all of my friends.Friends i've known like FOREVER.And my best friend alayna.She lives in nc on the borderlime between nortj ans south carolina and she said there are a lot of mean peoples in nc.But,thats just in her school and something but whatever and now,They wanna move there in my first year of middle school!This isnt fair right?How would you feel?Oh what should i do??????I 'v always wanted to attend this school.ALL my friends are going to go there.And i dont want new friends.I dont wana laeve my best friends behind.I'd feel so bad.I wouldnt want to talk to anyone.I do not wanna move there.But there forcing me.

2006-07-17 11:18:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok i don't wear sugestive clothing that most guys like on girls. However i still get guys whistling and yelling out at me when i'm in public. Seriously i can't even walk down the street with out guys staring at me through their window or sticking their head out of their windows and whistling at me or yelling. I get so much attention that it drives me nuts. I Can't even walk down the street. Why won't they leave me alone? I hate it when i can see the guys eyes looking me over...ahh! I even had a guy make this gesture at me to get in his car. So why do i get this when i don't wear immodest clothing. Don't get me wrong i wear stylish clothing i just don't wear revealing stuff. Guys can you answer this?

2006-07-17 11:18:35 · 11 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 4 yrs. and when we are in public or around our famlies he is not as touchy feely as he is when we are alone. Does that mean he is trying to hide his feelings or is he ashamed of me?

2006-07-17 11:17:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need help getting in a chatline,everything i try it doesnt let me in or nothing happens.. can someone tell me how to get in a chatline i would like a pen pal i have no friends and i would like to meet new friends. please tell me or show me how to get in a chatline and r they free i would like a pen pal between 30-45. i am 32 does n e one want to be penpals

2006-07-17 11:16:32 · 1 answers · asked by jamer 1 in Friends

repeats and films you have seen ten million times is it the same in the USA. Its too late to go out and get a dvd. Im b o r e d any original suggestions to get out of this mode. Its too hot to read.

2006-07-17 11:15:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-17 11:15:42 · 21 answers · asked by Coodles 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 11:14:56 · 16 answers · asked by jasmina f 1 in Singles & Dating