I just discovered today that my wife slept with a guy last night that she has been having an on and off affair with for the last four months. I have confronted her before on this issue. I used a product known as Checkmate (which identifies the presence of sperm) on her underwear when she returned home. When I confronted her with the evidence she admitted it and claimed to love me and to feel sorry for what she has done to us. She says she'll do anything? She has lied to me for months and has been sneaking around for months, making me feel bad as if I have done something, and destroying our finances, etc. We have been married for 9 years, next week. We have 3 children between us.
It is amazing how intertwined your life becomes with someone you have been married to for so many years and I am completely overwhelmed. I had her leave the house today so that I could have some time alone. I don't know what to do!The children, the house, the pets, I am overwhelmed. Any mature advice?
2006-07-01
20:26:38
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Woody
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Marriage & Divorce