25 yrs old indian gal, my father who comes fr a very cultured society who disagree on love. i found my guy 5 yrs ago...we were very much in love, he is from india who is working in my country...just 1 year ago due to immgration problem, he cant stay here, so wifout telling anybody i married him, so that he can be secure here. now my father knows abt my love live but does not know i am married...he is very angry and asking me to get out of the house. i love my father alot..i dont wish to leave him and also leave my guy...any suggestion? i want to live with my guy with his approval....how?
2006-07-01 20:23:34 · 1 answers · asked by Violet Calla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why is it important to have your dads approval to live with your husband...you didnt get it when you married the guy so why should it matter now?
You loved this man so much that you went and married him your father might be upset but it will pass and if not just pray for him. you have to do whats right for you and sometimes parents may not agree with what you do but then again they have already lived their lives and they shouldnt try to relive through you. Make your life with your husband your father will come around you just make sure that you stay strong and dont cave you can apologize for jumping into things too fast but not for making the decision you mad stand firm and your father will respect you he may not like you for a while but he will respect you
2006-07-01 20:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by redserenity0804 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋