ok the first time wasn't my falt
we were in his bed takeing a "nap" and we started to make out well one thing led to the other and i ended up loosing my Vergenity that day
well now he is wanting to have sex every day now and i have turned him down more than 3 times i'm afraid that he'll leave me if i don't say yes soon and i don't wont that to happen i wasn't planning on have sex till i was 18
what should i do i'm trying to be a responceible person but i'm only 16 i dont need this much presure from my bf
help me what do i do?
2006-07-01 20:29:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...why didn't u want to have sex until 18??...sex is normal...if u like the guy...and u enjoied the first time...just go ahead and do it..as long as both of u agree...if not...just dump him...there's plenty of fish in the lake...trust me...me and my girlfriend went through this to...and we are still making sex...u tell him what u feel...if u don't want to make sex...there is always an alternative that u can please him with...u enjoy life as much as u can
2006-07-01 20:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by bufu2222 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up with him if he can't respect you enough to respect your body. he sounds controlling to me...it's never good to be pressured into sex. it's okay to say no, you just need to stand your ground and have a discussion with him about the subject. just explain that sex is a new thing to you and it's going to take you awhile to get used to it. good luck and i hope i was of some assistance.
2006-07-01 20:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by opera_floozy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready dont do it its YOUR decision. Dont let him pressure you. If he leaves you he didnt love you. YOU ARE WORTH THE WAIT!
2006-07-01 20:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit down and honestly tell him you want to wait, if he has any respect for you he will, if not... youcan do better
2006-07-01 20:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what she said
2006-07-01 20:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by JAGuar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋