2006-07-01 20:26:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it because marriages are WORK real work, and most people expect something for nothing. They don't put in a lot of effort yet expect everything.
2006-07-01 20:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of people seem to think that after they are together for a while they dont have to flirt or be as affectionate. They get kind of lazy, however you should keep it flirty and fun , this is very important in a relationship. They say how can you love someone if you dont love yourself, well same with alot of other emotions, A woman has a hard time appreciating you if she doesnt think you appreciate her. After awile it starts to bother her but she doesnt want to say so , but the anger builds up and she starts to get angry over anything she can. the man will start to think of her as bitchy so he will try to avoid her . People really need to talk about thair feelings in a relationship and they need to listen and take advice also. Alot of times a woman will repeat over and over "It just doesnt feel like your attracted to me anymore" or " Whatever happened to the old times" and the man just doesnt pay it any attention, but it really hurts a womans feelings when they do that. Women respond to words while men respond more to actions, and that kind of collides, but it doesnt mean that it cant work ive known people in their 80s and they are still content with their relationship. A relationship takes an open mind if you dont have one than you should either stay single or work on having one. Dont stop being flirty and always remember when you first met. (By the way the women will stay skinny if you compliment her often the more compliments she recieves the more she will try to impress you) So if you are thinking about a lifetime take my advice i guarentee it WILL work , i would know im a woman in a happy relationship.
2006-07-01 20:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have an unrealistic (mass media induced) image of marriage. They are unwilling to accept that they will experience trials and some hardships in a shared life. Many Western adults have a sense of entitlement and believe that they must "always be happy." Well, life isn't always happy and people have to accept the normal course.
Plus, they may have married for the wrong reasons.
2006-07-02 16:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by cliotech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't realize that true love isn't just sex and that tingly puppy-love feeling they had when they first met! True love goes much deeper than those things! It's something that takes into consideration the other person's feelings and "learns" to overlook the other person's flaws, (which becomes known only after two people begin living with each other). There's truly a deep secret to a successful marriage between two people who come from different backgrounds and up-bringing! And it takes true devotion, (on both parties), to meld together successively to the point where "two-become-as-one"!!
2006-07-01 20:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because lots of people rush into marriage without really really knowing the other person. In retrospect, they fear regret and it stems that they missed out since they are wed. It's a mixed bag. Also the stress of managing the relationship is arguably rivaled by maintaining a job to pay for mortgage and numerous expenses, including children, if they have any.
2006-07-01 20:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about everyone else but I think that women start to feel that way because after they are married their husbands don't make an effort anymore to make them feel special. Its kinda like well I got her now why try now. And I know their are women out there too that once they get married they don't seem to care about what they look like anymore. My question is what do you do when your husband acts like to are not there anymore? And I am not one of those women that let myself go, I am in good shape and have guys 15 years younger than me hit on me.
2006-07-01 20:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they finally realized, to late, that the person they married is not meant to be there life long partner, and that this person can not full fill there needs in an emotional, spiritual or sexual way!!!!!
2006-07-01 20:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Quinton T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they get to use to their normal routine and life all together. You just assume that it's going to be there and it becomes natural. Ya loose the spontanious stuff and settle in because you're comfortable. That's what life is....go to a car show for him and a craft show for her and show a little interest in eachother and there ya have it!
2006-07-01 20:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very content with my marriage. My husband says I can say the same for him.
2006-07-01 20:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't have God in there lives and lack of communication! If this is for you try it.
2006-07-01 20:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by David C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋