We have dated and had sex about good 10-15 times. However, as soon as our marriage started the sex stopped and he avoided sex. When I initiated sex he gave me an excuse. He is not gay. He deoesn't have boyfriend or girfriend. He is not on any pill. He smokes a lot though. He said he is not asexual, not gay, he enjoyed sex before. Thank you for your advice. He says he enjoyed sex before but has no drive now. When we tried to have sex, he was feeling really insecure and inadequate. It was almost like little virgin boy who is afraid what is going to happen and want me to jump on him. But when we tried to have sex, he was very inadequate. It was like he didn't know what to do. He was like a little scared boy who was waiting for me to jump on him. He doesn't know how to foreplay, touch, please each other. He never initiated sex in last 5 years of our marriage. He said he was depressed but I have seen him happy and never initiated sex. He doesn't want to see doctor or therapist.
2006-06-30
15:52:53
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