I like this girl and everytime I see her I feel wierd..Like there's like this weird feeling in my stomach..like butterflies and such..I just want to tell her how i feel and i'm just fearful of rejection...honestly i think rejection and failure are the worst fears i have....I don't think i can overcome these obstacles....Everything in my life so far has come easy, but this...this is complicated....I know people will suggest be brave just tell her how you feel and if she doesn't like you for who you are then she's not the right person for you...Why does this have to be so hard......Maybe it's because i'm an introvert sort off, that's just my nature....Well if you have any suggestions feel free to help me please...Thank You... = )
2006-06-30 15:48:35 · 11 answers · asked by I_Like_Clementines 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you even friends? If you are going to tell her, then at least get to know her a little first. And some strong advise for when you do tell her eventually. Don't interrogate her and make her make the decision right then. Give her some time to think. Good Luck!
2006-06-30 16:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well almost everybody runs into this obstacle in life, you may ask your friends for advice but your not satisfied.telling her up front that's quick and easy but your afraid of rejection right? so i would say try and find out if she likes you back and there's a chance she will.ask one of her friends maybe that cud help.another way is giving her hints and clues and also writing letters to her. well thats all i can think of now hope it helps and i guess im reapeating what others say but this all i noe need any other advice just ask.
2006-06-30 23:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and tell her, you're the finest thing I ever seen, in and outside of my dreams. Come and spin with me.
Now on the serious side, don't tell her yet; show her by giving her attention, and even little thing such as a card to let her know you've been thinking of her.
Find out what she likes and give it to her. She'll love you.
2006-06-30 23:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-30 23:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by ASha A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a note but don't make it so long that she feels like she's reading a book... (had it done b4 it took me about 10 mins. to read the simple note that asked me out) tell her y u like her and tell her that she holds that special quality that no other girl has that u luv about her... good luck!!!
2006-06-30 23:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by hotchikdancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her friends or yours to hint around and try and find out. Write her a letter or email... Good luck.
2006-06-30 22:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay just ask her out if she says no then then she dosent like u if she says yes be nice and give her a kiss good night ==== )
2006-06-30 22:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence in yourself and tell her. Women respond well to confidence. If you are scared you will be rejected she will sense it and probabbly reject you.
2006-06-30 22:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Rex K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her u like her
but not in front of everyone
so if she rejects u it won't be that bad
2006-06-30 22:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by TrackStar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her flowers and ask her to go out for lunch.
2006-06-30 22:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by Duke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋