Well my husband works overnights and I work days to make sure one of us is home with our 10 mon.old son. I miss him and when he comes home I am going to work and he gets days off when I work as well, then I have days off when he is working. We have no time together and I am lonely. I miss him what should I do to help our relationship? We have been married for a year and a half?
2006-06-30 15:45:51 · 23 answers · asked by Cathy L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't be lonely, it's all apart of making the money to survive - try to keep yourself busy - find something that will please him that he'll find on his days off. It will work itself out eventually, you miss the one you love - maybe soon you'll both have vacation time to spend together. Stay in there don't give up.
2006-06-30 15:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find time to be together, the two of you should have at least one day of the week off so you can be together, that way, you can both take care of your baby but also have time together. When the baby goes to sleep, do something romatic.
You can also work at the same place as your husband so at least in lunch time, you can see him and talk.
2006-06-30 22:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by stylish gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a part time job, so you can be home on the days he is. They're out there. Definitely do something different, in order to have a relationship you have to spend time together.
2006-06-30 22:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can find someone you trust to watch your baby and try to work the same shift as your hubby. If that is not an option, try to set aside some time each week for you all to spend some quality time... since it's summer, go to the park, have a picnic, things like that. Good luck.
2006-06-30 22:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband did the same thing for 3 years, we somehow managed to conceive another child while not seeing each other but in the passing... anyways... the little one is now 10 months old... since january i have quit my full time job, and took a prn job... less money for us.. but we are now able to spend time together.... u have to sacrifice
2006-06-30 22:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by steveangela1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you should take a day off on the same day so you two can spend some time with each other.
2006-06-30 22:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by on184 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get away to spend some time together once or twice a month. It doesnt have to be anything extravagant, but it will be nice to get away from work just to be together. If you can, try to get a sitter for your son, and if not, make it a family outing!
2006-06-30 22:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you guys work on the weekends too? you should both take a day off planned once in a while, and do something special. something that you can remember for a long time. that way, you can think back about how much you enjoyed yourselves, and look forward to the next day off.
2006-06-30 22:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by sportzgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should work it out so that either both of you work days or both of you work nights. Your son could go to daycare or get a babysitter. Then you would all have time together.
2006-06-30 22:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by ______ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my wife are the same way. Look at it like this, if you see each other all the time, then you might get tired of that person. So by being away all the time, it kinds keeps you missing your better half. :)
2006-06-30 22:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by Tim P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋