My 8 year old always wants to be at her dad's. It hurts me like crazy. She always wants to be taken over there early, and then she doesn't want to come back. I tried giving her more time over there, but it got worse, and daddy wasn't spending time with her anyway. She likes to go over there if daddy is there or not. She's got tons of toys there and a stepsister her age. Daddy is out working or doing his own thing most of the time when she is there. He 's a crappy father and lets the kids stay up unsupervised til 3 or 4 in the morning long after they've went to bed. He lets her watch rated R movies, and a couple times she even walked in on him and his wife having sex. But she's obsessed with wanting to be over there all the time, I don't want her going over there at all, let alone any extra. But she asks everyday to go to daddy's, sometimes it's almost constant. What do I do?
2006-06-23
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