Family & Relationships - 19 June 2006

Two of my friends are deeply in love with me and are ready to do anythin for me i don no who to chose please do help me............

2006-06-19 03:51:21 · 17 answers · asked by myrules 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been separated for a year, and am about to be divorced in August....i have 2 sons who I love dearly, I work full time 12 hrs each day as a corrections officer, and go to school at night full time, I met this lady there, I never had the courage to go up and talk to her...she is very intelligent, and looks like a 10 to me....I finally did talk to you 2 months ago, and I have not regretted it, I want to spend my time with her but my family is always having drama....they also do not like light skinned women....and she is very light....but I want them to like her because I want to have a life with her my divorce is through, but I dont want her to feel like I am using her....my boys like her alot...and i like her daughter, we are trying to become a family, but my family is making it difficult, i love her and I love my family...what should i do....

2006-06-19 03:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by rayrayray1359 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfirend is very immature.she gets angry if i dont look at her for a very long time or dont tell her often how beautiful she is and how much i love her.we know each other for 8 months now still i couldnt instill the trust in her.she gets very jealous when i talk to other girls.she is getting very posessive about me.i wish that she would have been more mature and undertsnading that its the mutual trust in the relationship thats important not my spending time with her all the time to make her feel secure.is she ok or is it all natural or have i been doing something wrong with her.should i give her more attention or tell her to grow up.help

2006-06-19 03:51:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help me understand why you live together and not get married?

2006-06-19 03:51:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 03:50:22 · 19 answers · asked by Goldfinger 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 03:49:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for a year and a half. I honestly love him with all of my heart. We have our ups and downs, more downs then ups. He smokes weed and drinks alcohol on a daily basis. I can deal with that. He also uses another substance like twice a week. He has an addiction to porn as well. The porn bothers me the most, because he watches it every time I leave the house. He has lied to me about it over and over again. In the begining I watched it with him. At times, he would watch it then turn it off and go to sleep. He has sex with me like twice a week, sometimes 3. He says he wants me to be more aggressive sexually. I can't. All I can think about is hiw he watched it all day and was bustin' to the videos. I feel degraded. I've offered to do anything they do in the video. When I perform oral he closes his eyes and gets quiet. He was in prison for several years. He has problems staying hard or ejaculating. I love him, but we have big problems w/ sex

2006-06-19 03:48:10 · 22 answers · asked by youknowwho 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Her cousin said that she was fat and I realy like her but she saya im the only n ethat likes her

2006-06-19 03:48:08 · 12 answers · asked by schnelting16 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 03:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-06-19 03:47:33 · 11 answers · asked by gqenoel 2 in Friends

I want to know as soon as possible if he is the father cause I can't raise a son by myself.

2006-06-19 03:46:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 03:46:39 · 12 answers · asked by grantlilmama 2 in Singles & Dating

I usually go with the traditional gift card, but this time I want to show that I put some thought into the gift. It's hard shopping for guys. Any feedback from my ladies or fellas?

2006-06-19 03:46:33 · 9 answers · asked by sillyck 2 in Friends

Is Age really nothing but a number?

2006-06-19 03:46:32 · 16 answers · asked by afrinista10 2 in Singles & Dating

I hear all these answers about see an attorney and how so many would take my case if it were a strong one, but its not that I haven't tried. I have contacted at least five attorneys not counting the ones that screwed me and they declined to help me. All of these attorneys are connected and dont want to turn on their fellow peers. I need names of someone who might listen to me and help.

2006-06-19 03:46:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So much advice tells us to 'be ourselves' or 'be true to ourselves', and yet we would all agree that it behooves us to undertake a certain amount of self improvement e.g. if someone tells you that you are rude, it would be worthwhile makeing an attempt to be more courteous, the same goes with other things like being more confident, more loving, more literate, more open minded, more healthy etc.

This contradiction has been haunting me for years. I would very much like to change and improve myself, but I keep being told that I should just be myself. What am I supposed to do?

2006-06-19 03:46:08 · 5 answers · asked by SmartBlonde 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK here is the deal. I have known this boy since 2nd grade. he is nice and sweet. But i have not seen him since we moved. ANd i heard that he will be going to the SAME school i am going to next fall. I have always had the hots for him. What should i do? Should I tell him? HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!

2006-06-19 03:45:57 · 44 answers · asked by carolinagirl:) 2 in Friends

I feel sometimes my husband is too strict but, he doesn't think he is. I don't think he likes me challenging his authority because he is the "man of the house" so to speak.

2006-06-19 03:45:52 · 23 answers · asked by Tweety 2 in Family

guys for friendship then comes love??

2006-06-19 03:45:00 · 2 answers · asked by bcboi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 03:44:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Changing appearance of a guy,how much does it affect you?
For example different haircuts,facial hairs,clothes,...

2006-06-19 03:44:36 · 13 answers · asked by denkamran 2 in Singles & Dating

you know that single thing that irrates you the most?

2006-06-19 03:44:21 · 4 answers · asked by Tony 1 in Singles & Dating

may be i need to get a new brand of pants

2006-06-19 03:43:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 03:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by backstreet_boy121 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 03:43:30 · 11 answers · asked by Alexis C 1 in Family

The lady could be very young
I feel like I I am a normal person

2006-06-19 03:43:29 · 10 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Singles & Dating

Do women like circumsized men more or un-circumsized?

2006-06-19 03:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pick on you what would you do

2006-06-19 03:42:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-06-19 03:42:29 · 18 answers · asked by Stacy J 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 11yrs and i have this prob. i tend to flirt alot, and get myself into trouble. my honey doesn't know that i do this, but i almost got caught a few times. because of my flirtyness, i feel so jealous when he talks to another girl or looks at one. i have no reason to feel jealous, because he give me all i need. but, why is it that i keep doing the same thing over and over, and how do i get over these jealous feelings i get? pls don't think that i am a b*tch,cause i am not. i love my honey so much, i just have this prob. does anyone know what this is, or has the same thing. i am a hottie and i get attention all the time. is that normal to flirt back, and when i do i get the thought that my honey is doing the same thing, and i couldn't take him flirting with someone else. help me, give me some advice. plse be nice and give some construc. crit.

2006-06-19 03:41:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce