2006-06-19 03:42:29 · 18 answers · asked by Stacy J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends how valuable is your treasure (your body) You should not worry how long he can wait but never give it up without being ready to give it up.
2006-06-19 03:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but if you are just dating, don't give him sex. If he is a great guy and not just a materialistic, immature guy then he would wait forever! You should save yourself for that one special person. It may not matter to you now, but when you are older, if you have that great gift to give, it means so much more. If you have already given that gift to someone else, then don't give it any more.( Gift meaning your virginity) Sex is becoming too casual these days. When I was in high school my "Perfect" boyfriend cheated on me and I got an STD. I was pretty sick. Look up STD's on the internet and see how disgusting and easy to get they are. I don't think high schoolers realize the risks. Or maybe they don't care!
2006-06-19 10:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Alexis C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about hwo long can he wait its how long will it take for you to feel comfortable enough to say yes to something like that. You don't have to have sex when you are not well and ready. But as long as you love this fellow and you feel comfortable and its a respectful thing it may vary from relationshio to relationship and some take a day and others a year! It all depends on us g/f
2006-06-19 10:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy and what hes looking for if a guy just wants a piece of tail then they expect it the first night. if hes an ok guy he may wait for 3 or 4 dates if hes an upstanding gentleman he will wait till your ready!
2006-06-19 10:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend waited till 5 months before having sex for the first time
2006-06-19 10:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am unsure of your age, but if you are under 18, I would say you both should wait until more mature and you know this is the one. In either case he should wait until you are ready. If he can not do that then I would tell him bye bye. Or he may have sex with you and tell you bye.
2006-06-19 10:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by usmchawkeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll wait until he figures out sex isn't all that important to you, then move on. Similar sexual appetites is a very important part of being compatible with someone else.
2006-06-19 10:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and if we were dating I would wait till you was ready
2006-06-19 10:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by dark_prince_mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes the right 1, he'd wait till u get married...its wrong 2 do that b4 u get married...& thats how u find the right 1 of not, if they will wait, & dont cheat r ne thing, u have the right 1...
2006-06-19 10:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy claims to care for you and your feelings he should wait until you are entirely sure and ready, if he says he cant them send him packing!
2006-06-19 10:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by debra_har 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋