i have been married for 11yrs and i have this prob. i tend to flirt alot, and get myself into trouble. my honey doesn't know that i do this, but i almost got caught a few times. because of my flirtyness, i feel so jealous when he talks to another girl or looks at one. i have no reason to feel jealous, because he give me all i need. but, why is it that i keep doing the same thing over and over, and how do i get over these jealous feelings i get? pls don't think that i am a b*tch,cause i am not. i love my honey so much, i just have this prob. does anyone know what this is, or has the same thing. i am a hottie and i get attention all the time. is that normal to flirt back, and when i do i get the thought that my honey is doing the same thing, and i couldn't take him flirting with someone else. help me, give me some advice. plse be nice and give some construc. crit.
2006-06-19 03:41:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try to focuse on ur home try to spend ur time in making the house cleaner try to make food decoriate ur house think that thier is no preson will care about u that mush expet ur husband try to have a baby thise will give the feeling that ur husband is every thing in ur live and good luck
2006-06-19 03:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by what ever ? 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You need to stop doing this and if you cannot stop you need to get therapy and help for this. Stop doing this to him and if you cant let him go and divorce him if you cannot stay try to him. Just because you are a hottie does not give you license or right to do to him what you are doing at all! If you dont want him flirting with others then you should not be flirting either. You may also need to find a marriage counselor too.
2006-06-19 11:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have set a double standard where you are free to flirt and love the idea of more then one guy liking you - but at the same time you get bitter when your husband flirts or women pay him attention. It's like your subconscious mind telling you it is wrong behavior to flirt - but you like the attention. At the same time, you don't want your husband to have the same privileges. It sounds like you need to grow up and start flirting with your husband - he's the man that counts.
2006-06-19 10:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on yourself. If you know already that you would be devistated if your husband even so much as flirted with someone then why in the heck do you do it? What do you think he would feel like? It's not a HARD thing to do here, stop flirting with people.
2006-06-19 11:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow419 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people ask for advice if they know no one personally knows your situation. No one can personally help you if you don't help yourself. You want advice? Stop flirting. It is just too simple.
2006-06-19 15:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by Itiswhatitis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r flirting and get jealous too, well stop flirting and get over ur jealousy if u trust him.
2006-06-19 10:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My instincts tell me you're a guy, anyone else getting that?
2006-06-19 19:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that hard. my god just stop doing it if you dont want it done to you. problem solved.
2006-06-19 10:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋