immature girlfriend?

Question

my girlfirend is very immature.she gets angry if i dont look at her for a very long time or dont tell her often how beautiful she is and how much i love her.we know each other for 8 months now still i couldnt instill the trust in her.she gets very jealous when i talk to other girls.she is getting very posessive about me.i wish that she would have been more mature and undertsnading that its the mutual trust in the relationship thats important not my spending time with her all the time to make her feel secure.is she ok or is it all natural or have i been doing something wrong with her.should i give her more attention or tell her to grow up.help

she is 18 and i am 20.and really she has a very low selfesteem.but she love me crazy and starts crying when i dont talk to her often.childish.am i really babysitting.

Answer 1

YES..VERY IMMATURE GIRLFRIEND...sounds like a bad case of low self esteem that your girlfriend has.....every GOOD relationship has to be based on trust and if she doesnt know that or cant understand it..this is NOT the girl for you. U do not have to give her more attention..u should TELL HER THAT IF SHE DOES NOT GROW UP ITS OVER BETWEEN U TWO..i mean honestly nobody she have to put up with that kind of craziness in a relationship.

remember u dont owe anybody anything ..THIS IS YOUR LIFE AND YOUR HAPPINESS,,,,so stand up for what u want...

Answer 2

You said it - she needs to grow up. Is she very much younger than you, perhaps? The only thing that will help her is time to mature & gain responsibility. If - after 8 mos together - she is still so demanding & insecure, you probably need to move along. I'd say look for another woman, someone not so high-maintenance or so immature. You need to have a life, too, & babysitting someone else's ego is demanding. She's not just immature, she's behaving selfishly. Good luck.

Answer 3

She is very immature.Either she is very vain about her looks or she has very low self steam about her self.You need to let her know how you feel.You can't keep it in a relationship is based and trust and honesty. Maybe she was cheated on.But either way you put it she shouldn't take out her past relationship problems with you.Your doing everything right tell her she needs to grow up. Good Luck

Answer 4

u should give her more attention, just like a good bf would do, and just respect the fact she doesn't want u talking to other girls, don't talk to other girls in her presence.

Answer 5

she's a needy psycho. dump her. she'll drive you nuts in a few years.

Answer 6

You know this a crazy ***** too^^^^

Answer 7

get rid of her!