OK here is the deal. I have known this boy since 2nd grade. he is nice and sweet. But i have not seen him since we moved. ANd i heard that he will be going to the SAME school i am going to next fall. I have always had the hots for him. What should i do? Should I tell him? HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!
2006-06-19 03:45:57 · 44 answers · asked by carolinagirl:) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am in middle school going to high school.
oh did i mention i went out with his BF(best friend)
2006-06-19 03:51:56 · update #1
Yes I would, K, hear is what happened to me,.... I liked this guy in 5th grade, and did not stop until I graduated High School. When we were all signing each others yearbook's, he wrote in mine that he always had a crush on me and he always thought I was pretty. Hmmm! Can you believe that, what irony! So then 25 more years went by and we all met for our class reunion. I saw him there, and at that time I was glad I didn't pursue it. He had lost his fabulous looks, and looked like an old alcoholic with a cheep "old " hussy on his side. Haha! My crush finally ended (after 32 years)! But for now, ya, let him know how you feel when you get a chance. Don't take as long as I did for my crush to die. Un-requited love hurts, you don't want to put yourself thru that. Have fun sweetie! Be brave, what have you got to loose? Go for the Hottie!
2006-06-19 04:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Wenikiilei 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
How about see what he looks like? I don't know what grade you are in, but if it is middle school, you are still 4-5 years older, or high school where you can be 6-7 years older. He could have lost what you find attractive in that time, especially since we are talking the difference from 7 years old to 12-14 area.
2006-06-19 03:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends for a while and see if the feeling is mutual and if it is, ask him to a dance or just if he wants to hang out or something. You may find that you might not really like him as more then a friend now. People do change after time, new friends, different crowds, different place, so just take your time, because only time will tell what will happen.
Good Luck.
2006-06-19 03:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by David W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would wait and see what he looks like now and what kind of person that he is. If you haven't seen him since you moved there is no telling what has happen over that time. If you find yourself still having the hots for him then yeah I would tell him. The only thing he can do is turn you down and if that happens then it wasn't meant to be and their will be somebody else.
2006-06-19 03:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by BabyBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him! The worst that can happen is he dosen't feel the same way, but then you'll have closure and move on. And the best could be that he has the hots for you, too! Who knows, you could end up together forever, and you'll tell your kids you got the guts to make a move from your pals at Yahoo Answers! (Print this out for future reference!) Good luck! =D
2006-06-19 03:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a old southern saying that goes"The devil hates a coward" .Let him know how u feel.That's whats wrong with the world today,men are afraid of rejection and society thinks its wrong for a woman to approach a man Jesus if this keeps up with all the gays out there we as a species will become extinct
2006-06-19 03:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by apache672004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should strt tlkin to him a lil by lil if yall was good friendz back in the days then try ta rremeba good times and bring it up to him so yall cna strat a convo. dont move to fast with him though at first takee babystepz at a time u no.. if u srt seein that hes feelin u then go for it but juss for now be freiend then mayb it can grow inta sumthin else ma..go0d luck 1
2006-06-19 03:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by DiZz NeNez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scope him out. Rekindle the friendship first get to know him again since you've been apart for a while. Then you can figure out if you feel the same way about him and move on from there.
2006-06-19 03:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by crystalwitchayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell him you will never know his answer. Than you will always wonder what if? Always better just to be up front and honest. I waited to tell my now bf for over a year, and wish I would of said something a lot sooner!! Good Luck!!
2006-06-19 03:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by little_angel_in_eugene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Sweety don't be silly ..you can just say Hi ..How are you...
and see u around ...so if he really want you he will act in a special way that u can easily recognize ..and when such thing happens ..then u can have a step toward !
trust me
2006-06-19 03:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Nacht v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋