Family & Relationships - 18 June 2006

My mom grew up in poverty.When young,she worked hard 2 earn money so that her brothers and sisters can get proper education.When she married, it was not exactly a happy marriage but she held on for the sake of me & my brother. My father died 10 years back & she had to work again after a gap of 25 years.I became an engineer and my brother a doctor because of her hard work. i had a love marriage 3 years ago,not exactly against her wishes but she was not exactly happy with it either.Now, after a big fight, my wife has walked out of my home.We r thinking of seperating. my mom, in her old age, has to witness all this. She is upset all day. I WANT 2 MAKE HER HAPPY, BRING SOME CHEER IN HER LIFE. HOW DO I DO THAT. PLEASE ADVICE, PLEASE HELP ME

2006-06-18 19:14:27 · 8 answers · asked by archer 2 in Family

my mom and my boyfriend had an affair 4 yrs ago and i finallly decided to end it with him about 2 months later my mom has been seeing him all this time he used to beat me when we were together he does it to my mom when my 2 sisters and 1 brother are there my sisters are 17 / 14 and brother is 11 he is also having to go to court for talking dirty to a 13 yr old girl and her bfriend ( apparently telling them to go and do dirty stuff ) i didnt speak to my mom for 2 1/2 yrs we made up a yr and bit ago she still sees him ( mom and dad are split up ) what do u think u would of done and what would u do now ? ( i now am very happy have a wonderfull man and are going to buy a house together my mom will not come between me and my new bf he hates her for what she put me through they havent spoke for yrs he's willing to speak to her not lots just say hello if she comes round my house with my bro and sisters ) any 1 have an opinion on this and i am very forgiving and naÍve i cant help it im stupid

2006-06-18 19:12:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-18 19:11:07 · 24 answers · asked by Jazzy Faye 2 in Friends

Ok, what would you do if you read in your bfs journal that the only girl he ever loved was someone that wasn't you(even though he tells you you're the only one he loves) and at prom(with you next to him) he tells her she's beautiful and just watches her for some time...like if you're not there.

2006-06-18 19:10:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im pretty sure she wants to, but when i go ahead and ask her straight out, things always seem to go bad and distract her attention...i tried guiding her hand but once again things caught her attention =\

2006-06-18 19:07:34 · 6 answers · asked by Not Available. 1 in Singles & Dating

Have any of your parents or grandparents stuck together, as in married, for their entire life (or are almost likely to do so)?

As in my case all members of our family tree, atleast upto my Great Great Grandparents, have stuck together for their whole life & I most likely will do so, too. My mom's first cousin once removed was the first person in our family tree to ever go through a divorce (7 years back); though he has married someone else & they are living a happy married life together, his divorce was treated by my family/relatives like the biggest, most shameful incident ever to happen to our genealogy tree. But this is not necessarily due to the "record-breaking" reasons, it is because our culture itself does not tolerate divorce.

How about you?

2006-06-18 19:06:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really wanna get myself a gf. Damn serious, ok. if you're reallly there to help and willing to advise ladies, do drop me a msg @ andphm@gmail.com. Male mentor are welcome too. No spam mail please! thank you

2006-06-18 19:06:44 · 5 answers · asked by ('~' ) 1 in Singles & Dating

Once he came back up to school to see me but guess who was with him his ex girlfriend and I asked him once but he said no he thinks shes a spoiled brat. All his friends say that he stopped liking her a year before they broke up ,but after they broke up they still hung out together.

2006-06-18 19:05:55 · 27 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys have to be so superficial?

I think I am a pretty nice girl, I listen and I care and I respect people and I even pay my way. But I don't look the greatest. So to get to the point, I don't exactly have guys hounding for my number. (Unless you wanna count this old drunk guy at work that was at least twice my age.. lets not go there).

Guys- Any suggestions to the unbeautiful girls on how to get a guy?

Please no rude comments, lets be adults here.

2006-06-18 19:03:19 · 21 answers · asked by GinGin 2 in Singles & Dating

i get hit on everyday! lol and im chubby and i am very sexy! men dont know what to think! i was compared to the girl in the chris isaaic >wicked gamed video the other day and he said i was just as hot as her! ppl you all crack me up at your answers! would you answer this: is there any mature ppl up this late besides us bartenders getting off work??????

2006-06-18 19:02:07 · 6 answers · asked by stupiddrunk 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-18 19:02:02 · 19 answers · asked by LINDA 3 in Family

come on i need to know!!!!!

2006-06-18 19:01:16 · 15 answers · asked by bigred23_13 1 in Singles & Dating

Sorry about the caps, just wanted to stand out. But seriously, who keeps removing them? They aren't offensive, are they? If they were just let me know how and I won't let it happen again. I can't read the replies when they're removed and it makes me sad.

2006-06-18 19:00:17 · 11 answers · asked by littleredbrainpower 2 in Singles & Dating

So if your significant other just had oral surgery (that day) and is dealing with a bad cold, would you pick that day to tell her she needs to lose some weight? Is there anything else that you'd like to do while I'm already miserable? Kick my dog maybe? Geez.

2006-06-18 18:59:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-18 18:57:29 · 16 answers · asked by _michelle_ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-18 18:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I know this is singles and dating, but too bad. Okay, so I've always been a skinny person, and I never had to really watch what I ate. But now as I'm in my teens, my metabolism is slowing down, and if I don't watch it, I'm going to start gaining weight. What are some ways to avoid gaining weight, with out major dieting. No, anorexia is not an option.

2006-06-18 18:55:52 · 11 answers · asked by Ooga Booga 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you wait till your baby comes out and detemine which name suits him/her better? Please help!!! Thanks! :)

2006-06-18 18:55:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Not sure i like being boxed,as below but a new boy on the block
should do as he is toldish.

2006-06-18 18:55:08 · 9 answers · asked by njb 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated with this guy for two times, and he tried to kiss me. I rejected it because we wer still more like friends, and I wanted to move little more slowly, and I also scared that he may be just playing with me without thinking serious relationship. But after that he never call me for more than 1 week. Did I make him mad, or he just lost interest for me because I do not kiss or have sex with guys that easily?

2006-06-18 18:54:26 · 4 answers · asked by rachel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-18 18:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they use to control my wife before marriage ... untill she too ran away and we got married.. now after 5yrs we have a new born ... they immdeiatly move to the neighbourhood and are constanly visitng the home. they have taken control of the upbringing of the child and would not leave

2006-06-18 18:52:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been abused while growing up...at tiems it was emotional other times it was physical...one time when i was 23 and staying with my parents they dragged me out of bed and down the stairs literally becuase i didn't want to go to see an RV with them... Abuse comes in many forms and was wandering about this....

2006-06-18 18:51:03 · 12 answers · asked by darkmatter 3 in Family

Why has this person had an impact on your life and devolpment? What has the person done which makes him or her significant? (No real names necessary, and remember - don't say mother or father, as it is a possibility - for some people - that they would have had that impact on your life).

2006-06-18 18:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Drewy-D 4 in Friends

I think they should. If you agree what type of reparations? Who should give the reparations?

2006-06-18 18:50:49 · 28 answers · asked by Oracle 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i had the best bf ever!I luved him so much!Then this guy that i had liked 4 2 years asked me out.I told him no i have a bf.I told my friend that i wondered wut wuldve happened if i said yes.So when we hung up she called my bf & said i was breaking up with him.She told me he broke up with me.Then she asked my bf out & he said yes.I miss & luv him so much!My friend says she luvs him.But i dont think he luvs her.I just found out wut she did.so should i tell my x?If i do im affraid of losing my friend.

2006-06-18 18:44:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-18 18:43:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She is my all, I just love her and miss her all the time!!! She love me and said that she likes me but when I told her about my feelings she said that I am not sharing the same feelings with me!!! I am daying!! she still talking to me though!!! I want her to be my baby!!

2006-06-18 18:43:01 · 7 answers · asked by ZoOoOoM 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with this women that i cared for and loved very deeply,feelings i had never had for a women before.I know that we ca'nt be together anymore but when i'm on dates with other women all i can picture is my ex and not the women i'm with.Please serious answers only,and i can't get a hold of her i've tried that to no avail and if i feel if i keep trying i'll look like a psycho....

2006-06-18 18:41:55 · 11 answers · asked by Big Baby Sweets 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-18 18:41:30 · 5 answers · asked by dannielle s 1 in Singles & Dating