Ok, what would you do if you read in your bfs journal that the only girl he ever loved was someone that wasn't you(even though he tells you you're the only one he loves) and at prom(with you next to him) he tells her she's beautiful and just watches her for some time...like if you're not there.
2006-06-18 19:10:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to talk to him about it.
If he's really in love with someone else, you need to end it with him. That's not right for you to suffer about him.
Take care.
2006-06-18 19:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should never read anyone's private journal. If he wanted to share the information with you or anyone else, he would do so. Since you have read it and found out something that doesn't make you feel very good about him now, you have to deal with the situation. I'd say you should just leave him if you feel that you're not the one he loves. Besides, you're way too young to be in a serious relationship any way. Maybe this is a sign for you to experience life and learn what true love really means.
2006-06-18 19:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you really shouldn't read your boyfriend's journal. That's a sign of distrust and an invasion of his privacy. Secondly, obviously there's an issue here and maybe you need to just let this go and move on if it seems he doesn't have the same feelings that you have for him (he can say whatever he wants, but if he doesn't really show it and you don't really feel it, what does it matter?).
2006-06-18 19:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to think that he still had feelings for her. You should talk to him about it if it's really bothering you. You probably shouldn't have read his journal, though. He might not be over her, but if he is with you then he cares for you too. Just talk to him and ask him to be honest.
2006-06-18 19:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're reading his journal you've violating his privacy and proving yourself untrustworthy. If you don't trust him you shouldn't be with him. Everything you want from him you have to be willing to be that yourself for the good of doing it.
2006-06-18 19:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Clayton B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why were you reading his journal??
you are a horrible girlfriend....and he deserves better...would have rathered him say that he loves you but he loved someone more before and he will never forget her?? i think not...what would you have done if he read your journal?? what lies would he read about you??
2006-06-18 19:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it out get the real reasons 4 him being wid u if he doesnt think that u are the 1 he loves.
communicate what u feel dear
2006-06-18 19:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off slowly, dont make him suffer thought it, hes in love dont make it hard, he cant help it!
2006-06-18 19:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his ***, that bastard, you deserve better than that!!
2006-06-18 19:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!
2006-06-18 19:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋