What do you do if your hubby doesn't like to sleep with you, yet you are living in the same roof?

Answer 1

What, no sex? Oh dear. Is he just upset with something? then he may calm down. How does he react when you gently massage his manly bits? After 8 years of marriage I cannot stop that from arousing the man in me. I wish I could and sometimes feel so helpless. I Know it shouldn't, maybe, need to be like that, but point being I would have thought it was in the marriage contract. Well it used to be, before the government took it out. Good old government, eh?

Answer 2

Well, let me just say this...If your husband doesnt like to sleep with you then that is an obvious sign that there is more going on then you are lead on to believe. You need to start asking him questions and find out if it has something to do with you and I can almost guarantee you it doesnt. In most cases when this happens the man is usually messing around with someone else. Its sad to say, but true. There have also been cases where a man a woman have been married for a few years to later find out that the man is Gay. The percentage of this happening is low, but the possibility will always be there. As far as living under the same roof, that is also something that you need to discuss with him and maybe even give him an ultimatum.

Answer 3

I would find out why he doesn't like to sleep with you? Is it a snoring problem? Because my husband is terrible at it. We spend quality time together before we say good night and then we separate. I know he loves me so, it's okay. We still have a physical relationship however, I need my sleep. If you know he loves you, then you have to decide if this is an issue or not for you. Learn to pick your battles. If it is a snoring problem; then there are alternatives. I hope this helps you.

Answer 4

Why is your husband not wanting or liking to sleep with you? What has led up to this? I need more to the story here. What has happened in your marriage to lead to this? Then sleep by him on the floor in the same room he is in or get an air mattress and put it next to the bed. You should not be sleeping in seperate rooms or beds.

Answer 5

Make it clear to him politely that you need him to sleep with you,you need his love.It matters a lot to you.I am sure he'll understand. Another thing which might be the reason why your hubby might not be sleeping with you might be some kind of an inferiority complex.Clear all such problems out.

Answer 6

I would ask him why he wants to go somewhere else in the house and sleep. Do you snore? Ah, maybe you snore and you keep him awake at night. He needs his rest if he has to support his family. You need to go on that CPAP machine. Go to Sleep Clinic and get tested.
If you don't snore then you need to confront hubby and ask him whats up? good luck

Answer 7

Get a new hubby.

Seriously, you need to find out why. Prodding him with questions is not the way to go about this. Try to spice things up a bit. I'm a Passion Parties Consultant, and I hear this a lot. Sometimes we just get bored. Try something new and unexpected; spontaneous.

Answer 8

Is it that he doesn't like to sleep with you in the same bed or is it that he doesn't want to have sex?
If it's just a matter of location, I know LOTS of couples that have separate bedrooms and they have happy marriages.
If he's not interested in sex with you then you need to get to the root of the problem.

Answer 9

my friends parents are happily married for 20 years now and have never been able to sleep in the same bed bc the wife sweats in her sleep and the husband snores loudly. in fact they have their own bedrooms, they are in love and have 2 kids, they just cant get any sleep in the same bed!

Answer 10

I done the same thing. It was not because i didn't love my wife but because i have always been used to sleeping alone. It is hard to get used to change sometimes! try crashing out with him and it might get him used to sleeping with someone insted of alone. good luck!