My fiancee asked me to marry him almost a year ago (july 2005). This May we set a date of May2007 for the wedding.I love him and want to marry him & he says that he loves me & wants to marry me but he seems to not care about planning the wedding. He said if I want this wedding to happen it is all up to me to plan it. Another issue is that he has said that he isnt ready to be married (I think this is just an excuse) I dont understand--we are living as married people do (sharing finances, investing in joint purchases, being intimate, etc.) I dont see how things will change after we get married. Also he says, yes he wants to get married & be w/me & have kids. This is confusing me. Im not sure whether I should push ahead &continue planning the wedding or not, but I feel that if he doesnt commit to me in marriage then we should end the relationship. I wasnt raised to think its ok to have sex outside of marriage & each day that I do I feel guilty. I want us to be committed & have a future.
2006-06-13
08:35:12
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