I just started dating a guy who is unbelievable. He & I have way too much in common it's scary. He is exactly what I have always looked for. I think he feels the same about me. What are some things that I can do that will show him how I feel or make him feel special without scaring him? (besides sleeping with him)
2006-06-13 08:45:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find something you know he loves...and indulge him. Here are a couple of examples. My bf loves Star Trek, so I bought him a Klingon dictionary. Or...I found out he loves specifically milk chocolate, so I bought him a huge pure milk chocolate candy bar. These things don't have to be huge. They have to be meaningful, so try to remember something he mentions in casual conversation and surprise him but giving him something. He'll be surprised you remembered and that will mean a lot.
2006-06-13 09:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Continue taking things slowly, you don't want to scare him off by saying something wrong. If you want him to know how much you like him, get him a little present. Do some digging and find out what he really likes. It will show him that you care enough to listen to him. I don't recommend poems, love notes, or cards. Guys aren't as sentimental as we are.
2006-06-13 08:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA WHOA WHOA. Hold up a minute! My sis went out w/ this awesome guy and he was so cool he was like my bro! This was probably because HIM AND MY SIS HAD WAY 2 MUCH IN COMMON!!! Wow. Well anyways. They ended up breaking up because it just didn't work out. CAUSE THEY HAD 2 MUCH IN COMMON. You see what I am trying 2 say? This relationship WILL end 4 sure. Sorry for your luck, but you picked him.
2006-06-13 08:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by NewLondonChic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOW and EASY are the keywords here. If it's going like you think it is, you're obviously doing the right things, at the right time, so just keep on doing what you're doing. It's Working! He is well aware of all you're doing, and how much you care. Continue to do that! Good Luck!
2006-06-13 08:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then let him know how you feel. Call his work or home when you know he isn't home and play a love song in the background. Send him a card in the mail. This is a more subtle way of letting him know how you feel if you don't feel comfortable telling him. If its meant to be it will be, don't feel scared to tell him anything.
2006-06-13 08:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, 'I love you this much' and open your arms wide, you know, like children do when they tell they're parents how much they love them. Then, with your thumb and forefinger indicate about an inch and say 'but the world is only this big'.
2006-06-13 08:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about him. Then ask if he feels the same way. Good Luck :-)
2006-06-13 08:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoke some greens together and talk you'll love it and you may end up sharing some snacks together too!
2006-06-13 08:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him a cd,write him a letter.I made my fiance a cd when we first started dating and he loved it
2006-06-13 08:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by FaeryKitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook him a candle light dinner...corny I know, but I recently did it for someone and he loved it.
2006-06-13 08:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋