If I havnet had an orgasm during sex, does that mean I never will? I have, but not with a partner. Thats what vibrators are useful for...hehe.... But seriously... i've never had an orgasm with a guy!? wtf?
2006-06-13 08:43:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might want to experiment with same sex partners or watch a porn while having sex it can sometime stimulate you or at least it will heighten the experience. I know it works for me and my partner no complaints from her yet.
2006-06-13 08:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie K 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Trust me it's normal!!!! Eventually you will find someone that you will have an orgasm with. Also if your very tense, that stops it, you just have to let go and relax- I know its hard!!! Also, the hardest way to have an orgasm for women is during sex. Try him going down on you, that helps also
2006-06-13 08:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by lbecker7280 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication! If you can have an orgasm by yourself you can teach your partner to give you one! Try it with you on top or reverse cow girl (get the picture) then you are in control of the speed and angle and penetration!
Good luck, my wife did not achieve one with me during intercourse for a few months (just orally) after 10 years we have it working great!
2006-06-13 08:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal. Approximately 2% of women experience orgasm thru vaginal sex. The majority need direct clitoral stimulation. The way men and women are designed does not reach that important spot. Its not you, dont worry about it. Find pleasure other ways.
2006-06-13 08:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just mean that hes not hitting you spot or your not that in the mood. I mean i took a long time for my boyfriend to finally get it right. I had to lie to him. He never hit my spot or he didnt get me i my mood. I mean i wanted some but I wasnt really bad. Just know what gets you going. Start off slowly that way and tell him what you want.
2006-06-13 08:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is completely normal - a lot of girls do not orgasm during sex - nothing to worry about.
2006-06-13 08:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by grisgris100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hard for woman to have them some times don't think about it and it should come but if not , not all woman can have them and if he's not hitiingthe right spot ur not going tohave one u know where it , is show him and if youhave to us a vibrator to help doit , ok
2006-06-13 08:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by eagleheart242000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women never have them from intercourse. Have your man take care of you in other ways first then again after he is done if you feel you need more.
2006-06-13 08:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I know EXACTLY what you mean!! I am the exact same way, and I know a lot of other girls that are like this too (makes you wonder, doesnt it boys??). Don't worry, youre not the only one!
2006-06-13 08:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Aimee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably is the choice of lovers. Find one willing to take the time and with whom you feel comfortable enough to let go.
2006-06-13 08:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋