Family & Relationships - 11 June 2006

well me n my boyfriend have been dating going on 6mnths now and we are so in love but there have always been problems with his mama being over protective and she acted as though she didn't like me but he said that she did until recently she found a letter i wrote sayin that i was gonna break if off with him but i was told not to let her come between us so she was offended and said he couldn't call me and so on then i told him to tell her that i wanted to apologize so she was ready for that but the day b4 she was snooping around his room and found all my letters i wrote him and read them and some were freaky and we never had sex though and we wasn't planning on it cuz i'm savin myself but she told him that he couldn't see or call me at all after she found all my letters and now we barely talk and i still don't wanna let him go. sometimes he sneaks and call me and still tell me to hold on because we still need to be together but i feel like waiting for him is causing alot of pain

2006-06-11 10:16:23 · 2 answers · asked by 05699confused 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy about a month ago and we've really gotten into eachother. I go over to his apartment at least once or twice a week. He wants to have sex and I know I would really enjoy it, but I'm just not sure. He doesn't really seem like the guy who would use anyone or any of that, but at least once while I'm there he'll remind me of how much he's been hurt and used for sex and that he could never do that to another person. I think that if he had been hurt so bad, he wouldn't want to have sex right away, or am I wrong? I know I would really enjoy having sex with him, but I'm also afraid of hurting him. I'm not looking for a relationship at all (he knows that), but all those other girls left him right after they screwed (so he says). I don't want to be another one of those girls and he's kind of emotional/depressed, so I don't know if I should have sex with him or not. What do you think? By the way, I'm 19 and a virgin.

2006-06-11 10:13:34 · 20 answers · asked by goshimwaycool 3 in Singles & Dating

Im 21 and live in Pa. So far i seem to be standing in the same place as when i graduated high school. It seems to me that the people i hang with are really not doing much of anything with their lives either. I recently contacted my uncle in arizona and he offered me a place to live and pay my way out there. They are very successfull people and also born again christians. I dont know what to do. my family doesnt want me to go, but i feel this may be a positive move for me. Also im a lil worried about leaving everything i know. If anyone has any personal advice or has went through the same thing before please share.. i need all the advice i can get.. Also is arizona a good place to even live? Plz help

2006-06-11 10:13:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it me alone who feels absolutely nothing when I kiss? I have kissed a guy I really liked but still..........nothing,nada. What's wrong with me??!!!!

2006-06-11 10:12:46 · 3 answers · asked by Bab-E@Girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

tell me how you react when you get really horny, like right now? what would you do!

2006-06-11 10:11:24 · 8 answers · asked by honeiibunz09 2 in Singles & Dating

i met a female who a few weeks ago was brutallly tortured by her in-laws and husband so much so that she somehow managed to escape from that hell and is hiding at her friend's place whom i know. she is also a mother of a beautiful girl child. i couldnt believe my eyes when she showed me those ugly bruise marks on her and her daughter's body. she told me that her parents are not willing to help her as they think they hav fulfilled their responsibility by marrying her off. also,her in-laws are influential people. she is living with her friend for the past few weeks and fears for her life each day. I gave her my sympathies and a few suggestions and invite some more from ur side as well. this is a serious issue. please take it seriously........help

2006-06-11 10:10:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

you see I have a crush on this kid and I had a dream we were at a party and he asked me out and I said yes and I thought he was kidding around so I said yes well he was not kidding and he kissed me..... well when I woke up I could feel like need him and I called my friends and she said its a sign.... please e-mail me at funnymisschuckles@yahoo.com please help me out

2006-06-11 10:10:09 · 5 answers · asked by funnymisschuckles 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-11 10:09:15 · 8 answers · asked by tmac 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-11 10:08:55 · 6 answers · asked by silver scales 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-11 10:07:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-11 10:07:29 · 8 answers · asked by mean face 1 in Family

on friday a guy that i relly liked tried to french kiss me but i did not let him then he started kissing my neck and puting my cloth down i did not let him go to far should i let him do me the next time he puts my cloth down

2006-06-11 10:06:38 · 8 answers · asked by erikaolsen12 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in Germany and am getting ready for a year long deployment. My wife flew home to the states to visit her Mother and then to my parents house to spend the year while I am gone. She has been gone for 2 weeks and I got a phone call tonight saying that she had made out with an old highschool friend of hers (female). I was rather upset about this and I started yelling at her over the phone and eventually hung up on her. I sent her an e-mail about trust and how its alot harder to get back than to lose then called her and told her to read it and call me back. I started asking more pointed questions about the encounter and it turns that as she was making out with her friend the girl and her boyfriend were having sex. My first instinct is to go see a lawyer and get the papers in order, but just thinking about that hurts. Our son just turned one a month ago. Please, I need some advice.

2006-06-11 10:06:20 · 15 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-11 10:05:34 · 36 answers · asked by andy 1 in Singles & Dating

you have to relieve yourself some kind of way. if you do not want to commit sin by sleeping around, what do you do?

2006-06-11 10:03:42 · 23 answers · asked by gg 1 in Family

2006-06-11 10:03:12 · 9 answers · asked by soccer_coolio_96 2 in Family

just wondering how many would leave their partners/spouse's for younger women/men?... and why?

2006-06-11 10:01:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom doesn't always understand why i do the things i do and why i act the way i do.she thinks that i get my ideas and attitude and stuff from my friends who are kinda like the mean girls in the class, but really, i just get it all from her...she doesnt always understand that i do the things i do becuase it is what i like to do and it is who i am.....she doesnt get the fact that she can't tell me who i have to be.

2006-06-11 09:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by the oc lover 1 in Family

2006-06-11 09:57:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-11 09:56:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

c we talk on the fone for hours and call each other our fiance's and she had dream 1 time in wich i got down on 1 knee with a condom in a ring case and asked her to sleep with me.i realy like her. today she asked me 2 go fishin with her. i went and we had a great time. and on my birthday she promised me some kisses and that id get 2 cuddle with her. but i want to no just how to ask her out. u no just what 2 say 2her thatl really make her think.

2006-06-11 09:55:40 · 9 answers · asked by fighter 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-11 09:54:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

who love frist ( eyes or heart or mind )

2006-06-11 09:53:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-06-11 09:53:28 · 23 answers · asked by funtastic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-11 09:53:04 · 6 answers · asked by Sharamae 2 in Singles & Dating

in bed with another person?

2006-06-11 09:51:18 · 18 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how love frist ( eyes or heart or mind )

2006-06-11 09:50:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-06-11 09:50:45 · 12 answers · asked by nigga pale 1 in Friends

i hardly talk to anyone in school besides my few good friends. I can't start a conversation with someone for the life of me. I'm really self-concious and my insecurity is pretty much controlling my life. I'm getting sick of it but don't know what to do. Anyone know any confidence boosters or something?

2006-06-11 09:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by vintagexglamour 1 in Friends

we have been together for about 3 years now and have a 2month old together.I my fiancee but it seems like his mother can say and do what she pleases when she wants to and thats OK. I have explained to him that we are all adults and as an afult you have to be responsible for your own actions, he agrees with me but still lets his mommy get away with saying or doing anything......please help not sure what to do and I know I cant deal with this forever without eventually calling his mother on some of the things she is doing...........I would really like to avoid that....

2006-06-11 09:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by BlessedBeauty81 1 in Marriage & Divorce