i hardly talk to anyone in school besides my few good friends. I can't start a conversation with someone for the life of me. I'm really self-concious and my insecurity is pretty much controlling my life. I'm getting sick of it but don't know what to do. Anyone know any confidence boosters or something?
2006-06-11 09:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by vintagexglamour 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can relate. You know, a handful of great friends is wonderful, i can tell you for a fact the friendship will last longer than if you had 100 people you didn't know too well and didn't appreciate you for who you are. I'm saying that it's okay to be selective regarding friends. What are your interests? Maybe if you see someone you would like to speak to, who is reading a book, ask them what it is about? Or if someone is listening to their ipod, as them what they are listening to. There are a million ways to just start conversations, just look for things to talk about. But for confidence, i think you have to take small steps, if you start those conversations you will eventually feel ten times more better, and achieved for going out of your way! I wish you lots of luck.
2006-06-11 09:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by tinderboxofheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy like you, but when I started hanging out with my friends my shyness is gone,and alsowhen I saw this high school guy all I want to do is to know his name.I tried everything, but I'm too shy. Forget everything that makes you shy, Ithink that would work because thats what i did.
2006-06-11 16:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sharamae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo I'm like that too. I'm getting better though. It just came with time for me...Buy yourself a cute shirt and some earrings!
2006-06-11 16:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your parents know and have them seek consuling for you.
2006-06-11 16:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by gentleman1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE WE CAN TALK, IM KINDA LIKE THAT. EMAIL ME.
2006-06-11 16:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by John Doe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋