should i let him go?

Question

well me n my boyfriend have been dating going on 6mnths now and we are so in love but there have always been problems with his mama being over protective and she acted as though she didn't like me but he said that she did until recently she found a letter i wrote sayin that i was gonna break if off with him but i was told not to let her come between us so she was offended and said he couldn't call me and so on then i told him to tell her that i wanted to apologize so she was ready for that but the day b4 she was snooping around his room and found all my letters i wrote him and read them and some were freaky and we never had sex though and we wasn't planning on it cuz i'm savin myself but she told him that he couldn't see or call me at all after she found all my letters and now we barely talk and i still don't wanna let him go. sometimes he sneaks and call me and still tell me to hold on because we still need to be together but i feel like waiting for him is causing alot of pain

but i love him so much an i feel like if i leave him i stil will be in pain
i just want to work things out wit his mama
but how can i gain her trust?
how can i ask for another chance after she read thoe freaky letters
she said the only positive thing i wrote was staying on him about grades but most of my letters were love letters so she said she don't want anyone loving her child

i'm 18 he's 16
but she was okay with my age diff

should i suggest he has a one one chat with her n speak up on our love and then suggest she talks to me afterwards? cuz i don't wanna give up on our love but soon i'm goin to cuz i need him here in my life
but we promised ourselves always and forever and i don't wanna break a promise

we young yes but we are in love

Answer 1

well I am 16 so maybe I can help on his side of the view... He is strong and he isn't givin up even tho his mom is tryin to interferr with his relationships but hey she only wants what's best for him.. and your 18 so your more matture so everything is even more harder on you because your more serious in believe it or not your more likly to fallen quickier.. that's not a bad thing tho... it's just going to make waiting harder because your more on a serious level and you want everything here and now.. done and done.. he's younger in is on that level but still he is more patience than you.. he can wait longer.. he seems to love you to because he is defining his mother to call you... give it time.. try to indoure that pain your feeling.. it's just that you want everything to hurry up and get done so you two can be together.. I've felt like that with this 14 year old person... just be patience I am sure if you two truly love each other it will get fix and his mom will see that okay..

Answer 2

you are 18 and he is 16. you are a young woman. he is still a kid. the age difference is not big in years but it is in experience. his mom is not going to let him do whatever he wants because legally he is a kid! And if he obeys his mom, he is just not doing anything to help you gain her trust. I think you should try to have fun and let time heal whatever is wrong between you two. If he loves you as much as you love him, he will come around. But you can never try to get in the way of a momma's love. She is going to protect him until he decides to step up. Just wait a little and don't be pushy.