I met a man, and we both have good feeling to each other. I’m an eastern, and he is a American, we both have a failed marriage before.
The difference between us is, he was betrayed by his ex-wife, but I don’t have such experience. So, at first , he was cynical and suspicious. as time goes by, my trust and optimistic feeling changed him a lot.
The situation is, we will have our first holiday outside, and he wanna have sex with me. Actually, I only had sex with my ex-husband before, no other men, I think sex should base on the love and the marriage, it’s our culture. On the other side, he had lots of partners before.
I cannot deny, I may fall in love with him, and I am not willing to reject him. but, I also want to have sex with a man who really love me and give me marriage, so I hesitate about it too.
Once we have sex, I may just become one of his “partners”, that is not what I want. I must be bad hurt from it. Don’t laugh at me, it is our traditional culture, and I really don’t know what should do.
And, he knows our culture and my mind, but still have the plan, what does he mean?
Please give me your advice, thank you!
2006-06-10
19:21:41
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