Family & Relationships - 6 June 2006

2006-06-06 14:36:50 · 14 answers · asked by Monica C 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married 6+yrs and have 3 children. Two years ago, he found out he was positive. I was angry, frustrated, scared and disappointed. I was ready to walk. Somehow, I've forgiven him and we've moved on. We're still together and I feel like an idiot. Why can't he understand my fears and not have to have sex with me? We've argued about this many times before. He said regardless of his condition, it doesn't take away his sexual desire. I cover up the fact during sex that I'm uncomfortable w/ him in spite of the fact that he uses a condom. I shudder going for check-ups now because I'm fearful of the day the doctor telling me something I won't be able to handle. I've prayed many times about this. What do you guys suggest?

2006-06-06 14:36:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I have two weddings to go to this summer, and I have never been to a wedding where I wasn’t in the wedding party before. So I have a couple questions:

1) Do you wear a floor length dress to an evening wedding? Or is that too dressy? Do you just wear a cocktail dress?

2) Do you wear what you are wearing to the reception to the ceremony as well? Is it weird to be so dressy and in a strapless or halter dress in a church?

3) Do you get an updo for a wedding when you aren’t in it? Like do I just wear my hair like I normally do?(down and straight) Even though it is a dressy event?

Let me know what you guys think is appropriate, thanks!

(PS: One wedding is for my boyfriend's cousin, so I know the whole family that will be there. The other is for my boyfriend’s Dad’s Girlfriend’s Daughter. So I really won’t know anyone except for him, his dad, his dad’s girlfriend, and the bride & groom. If that makes a difference on what you think I should wear.)

2006-06-06 14:36:28 · 14 answers · asked by italian22angel 1 in Weddings

2006-06-06 14:35:52 · 15 answers · asked by tommyness7788 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are with him for 2 years and you realise that you aren't in love with him anymore... he's more like a brother..... or your best friend.... what do you do?? do you break it off before you really hurt him.... and if you are goin on a cruise with him at the end of the year do you go????? or should you end it before you leave??? What do you do if he doesnt want to leave your home town and you do??? What should i DO???????????? Is it worth it???

2006-06-06 14:35:46 · 5 answers · asked by sxgoddEss 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-06 14:35:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've liked this guy for a long time now. we've always flirted and had this connection and we've grown to become good friends too. recently, we hooked up at a party. both of us are not people who don't make out with people for the hell of it. turns out he also made out with another girl that night. things got awkward afterwards so i decided to confront him. however, when i asked him about it later he said "i suppose so..." when i asked him whether he considered this a random hookup so i played it off like i didn't care. now he never wants to talk to me anymore and always acts like he's angry at me. at the same time, i always catch him staring at me from time to time. what's going on? why is he doing this? help!

2006-06-06 14:35:18 · 2 answers · asked by Olivia R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-06 14:33:36 · 14 answers · asked by ohyeah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My neighbor was my first kiss. my best friend. Weve spent the night at each others house. ive spent moments with him that not even his girlfriends could add up too. weve shared are deepest darkest secrets with each other. But through it all were just friends. will he ever see me as more...

2006-06-06 14:33:34 · 7 answers · asked by krissy 1 in Friends

so say u like some one and u dont know if he likes u what do u do. How can u find out

2006-06-06 14:33:30 · 7 answers · asked by italy 1 in Singles & Dating

I LOVE this girl, and always have...but....she dont like me. And her boyfriend is a complete asshole. How could i either end up with her, or get over her?

2006-06-06 14:32:34 · 5 answers · asked by n w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-06 14:32:03 · 2 answers · asked by meg 1 in Singles & Dating

ok how old were you when you first had sex im 13 and have mixed feelings about what i just did how did u feel if u dont want to put it on so all can see email it to me at hottytinw1993@yahoo.com

2006-06-06 14:31:27 · 8 answers · asked by hottytina1993 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not close with her husband, but I have talked with him on occasion. My friend has been cheating on him for over a few months now. The "other man" eventually stopped talking to her and she agreed she made a mistake by cheating and wouldn't do it again, but wouldn't you know, the man came back and now she's wanting him again. I've had enough. I've tried to be a good friend and tell her to not screw with this guy anymore, but she insists on it. Should I tell her husband? And if so, how should I do it? Should I talk to him face to face and risk him telling her I told him, or should I do it another way without identifying myself? He's already suspected that she's cheating, but he doesn't know for sure.

2006-06-06 14:31:17 · 23 answers · asked by Kristen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ourdistance apart is really pretty far though we stay on the same country, the problem is our relationship. how could we keep up..
we know we can never find a way to find each of our kind, its pretty har.. knowing differences set us far apart.. though also we know that difference made us keep together.. but how could we keep things going??

2006-06-06 14:31:07 · 2 answers · asked by vincent plan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-06 14:30:28 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been talking (and arguing) for the two months we've been apart, and this past week is the first and longest time we've gone with out talking, and ill tell you, it really hurts :-( I'd love to talk to him again, but i can't bring myself to do it. Got any ideas as to how I can move on? I'd really apreciate it.

2006-06-06 14:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-06 14:29:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After having sex with my boyfriend,
he always seems to still like to *** on my stomach -
is this a turn on for guys?

Thanks :)

2006-06-06 14:28:17 · 9 answers · asked by Bounce 1 in Singles & Dating

For my wedding I am giving each of my girls a small Vera Bradley Bag. However, I am stumped. What should I put in each? I thought some Juicy Tubes (lip gloss) and I don't know what else. Any answers would be helpful. Thanks.

2006-06-06 14:27:53 · 11 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Weddings

she is really cool i like her alot se was my best friend til we started likein eachother

2006-06-06 14:25:59 · 6 answers · asked by tommyness7788 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-06 14:23:51 · 17 answers · asked by bhe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-06 14:23:43 · 23 answers · asked by [ΦΘΚ] PIяATE 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

being "fat" or over weight but my mom. Keeps asking me things like........Are u even going to be able to fit into your prom dress next year.......and can you still fit into your bathing suit from last year?..........and what is that fat under your chin..........you used to be in great shape, what happened? I never even thought of my self as "fat" or what not until my mom started saying things like that. I weigh 150 lbs and i am 5ft 6in......i thought that i looked great.... but now not so much thanks to my sweet mother.....i cant get these things that she said out of my mind i am constantly thinking about them....i am eating better now and exercising......but in between softball practice, work, chores, college and high school classes and studying and having a bf......great eating habits and good exercise do not always fitting in to my schedule( not to mention i work at KFC)
I dont have a real question to ask i just was hopeing that someone had some advice or help for a 17 year old gal

2006-06-06 14:23:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been dating a great guy for a year now. He is so good to me and my 6 year old son. I'm actually falling for him. I've been in so many bad relationships that it's hard to believe this one. In any rate, he asked me to move in with him along with my son. There is 2 things that's stopping me. I'm a stripper who have been dancing for 4 years. I never had the heart to tell him what I do because I thought he would leave me. Second, I'm not ready to move in because of past experience. It's always peaches and cream in the beginning. How should I tell him these problems without him looking at me different?? Will he leave me for it??

2006-06-06 14:23:04 · 5 answers · asked by **SPARKLES** 1 in Singles & Dating

the guy you loved let you down? Would you forgive your bf if he let you down when you thought you meant something to him?

2006-06-06 14:22:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-06 14:22:34 · 6 answers · asked by poohbear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-06 14:21:16 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay now that he realizes he has lost me his is crying and saying he knows he made a big mistake and that he is deeply sorry ...
Okay everyone give me your opinions .... Especially after he has been cheating for 16years now that he knows I want out now he is sorry....

2006-06-06 14:20:39 · 32 answers · asked by flipper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I make sure the water isn't blue first???

2006-06-06 14:20:24 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family