We've been talking (and arguing) for the two months we've been apart, and this past week is the first and longest time we've gone with out talking, and ill tell you, it really hurts :-( I'd love to talk to him again, but i can't bring myself to do it. Got any ideas as to how I can move on? I'd really apreciate it.
2006-06-06 14:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you would like to move on, right? so, the first thing you should do is not to talk to him. how can u move on if he is always on your mind. make yourself busy. moving on would be difficult especially if you still love the person. spend your time with your family & friends. pamper yourself. do the things that you were not able to do when you were still have a bf. enjoy having no commitments.
2006-06-06 14:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time but you will get over him alright..the first week was hard..You will still be tempted to pick up the phone and dial...but when you get through another week, the pain remains but you will have a better control of yourself...after a month, start to think that if he really did love you, he would have saved the relationship...That's what I did and what I am doing right now..Its been more than a month now...I still cry at night sometimes but i have a better grip of myself than the first few weeks...That is also 1 reason that brought me here to Yanswers and it helped.
2006-06-06 22:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had been with my boyfriend for four years and one day he up and told me that I didn't treat him right. So I said fine, I let myself cry about it that day, that was all I cried and I haven't cried about it since. I think that you should just cut off talking all together, it makes things harder. Get yourself out there with your girl friends, they seem to help you along the way. The best thing I can say is be strong and suck it up, it is always hard to get over a break up but in the end you will realize that everything happens for a reason.
2006-06-06 21:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him let him come to you!! Go out with friends! Chat on here! that is what has helped me!! Be strong and in the end you will be fine! Go out have fun let him slip your mind! I know easier said then done!!
2006-06-06 21:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. It always helps to go out. Enjoy yourself with friends who don't know your ex. Find someone new and you will forget.
2006-06-06 22:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ramona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to call ...saying that you want to be friends.
2006-06-06 21:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont think about him
2006-06-06 21:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋