If you are with him for 2 years and you realise that you aren't in love with him anymore... he's more like a brother..... or your best friend.... what do you do?? do you break it off before you really hurt him.... and if you are goin on a cruise with him at the end of the year do you go????? or should you end it before you leave??? What do you do if he doesnt want to leave your home town and you do??? What should i DO???????????? Is it worth it???
2006-06-06 14:35:46 · 5 answers · asked by sxgoddEss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, this is what you do. Break it off. Let him know that you love him and he is a great friend, but you are not in love with him romantically. You have different passions and you are proceeding with your life. Let him know you would like to still be friends. Those are the magic words that everyone should know, "We should just be friends." You do not want to wait until the cruise. As soon as you break up with him after the cruise he will think you used him to go on a cruise and he will call you a whore. Honestly, he would be right. If you really don't want to be with him but you want to treat him with respect, you won't make him look like a chump by taking his gifts or affections. Make plans to move out of town and make it swift and as short as possible. He will get over it, but he is going to hurt really bad no matter what.
2006-06-06 14:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell him immediately. Tell him you just don't have feelings for him anymore. You have to cancel the cruise. And you can leave town without him. Yes, it's worth it if you don't want to be in a relationship that has no meaning anymore.
2006-06-06 14:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by amoss311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Be honest with each other. The truth hurts, but it is important that you both know where you stand in the relationship. If your romantic feelings for him are gone, then you are not helping either of you by staying in a relationship "going nowhere".
2006-06-06 14:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by tangohunter52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not like him anymore, tell him now. Coping with this loss will be easier for him. Forget about the plans in the future. Deal with what's going on right now.
2006-06-06 14:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you dint like him like that if he's a gentle man he'll take your words and go on with his own business ,but anyway tell him if you stay your only hurting yourself
2006-06-06 14:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by degrassidk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋