Family & Relationships - 6 June 2006

I am still in love with my ex-husband and every time I see him he still hugs me, tells me how good I look, even goes so far as to ask me to go out for drinks with him. But the other night when I actually sat down and had a heart-to-heart, he let on like he wanted to get back together. He even said, "I really want to have another baby together." Like an idiot, I bought it, and of course now he won't return my phone calls, and finally when I did talk to him he said he was just "being stupid" the other night. I know he will never change, and his unwillingness to communicate honestly with me reminds me why we divorced in the first place. But every time he leads me on, then shoots me down, it turns the knife all over again. What do I do to get over him? It is wrecking any chance I have at a normal relationship with anyone else, and taking a huge toll on my sanity. I don't know if I'm coming or going lately...

2006-06-06 13:34:05 · 18 answers · asked by Frankie Baby 82 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy and I really like each other, and he claims he thinks he's in love, but we've never officially gotten together. I'm not the one to talk to someone for more than 2 weeks if I see nothing I like in them, but he's really kept me interested. He has everything I would want in a bf but for some reason it feels like he's holding back. He claims he doesn't want to get his heart broken again but I honestly think that he might be talking to someone else. We have tried to date previously but I found out he was messin with someone else. I don't know whether he's being honest, or lying and I'm falling for it. We both want this to work but in my opinion, it's taking too long. And it's not like I haven't said any of this to him. He knows how I feel.

2006-06-06 13:33:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-06 13:33:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-06 13:32:27 · 8 answers · asked by boyluvr26 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I were laying in bed lantnight and she brought up that she really wanted to ave a threesome. This is not really like her. She said I should pick a girl. Is this a trap why would she say this I dont want to get burned

2006-06-06 13:31:54 · 17 answers · asked by texman03 1 in Singles & Dating

When I went into the store for my mom the guy said I was "Beautiul" and asked if I had "missed him?" and I told him he was so cute.
The time before he asked me if i had a boyfriend or was married and I told him no.
Now how do I know if he is for real or just kidding around?
Serious answers only please.

2006-06-06 13:31:47 · 7 answers · asked by sandiegogal2002@yahoo.com 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-06 13:30:20 · 3 answers · asked by Meggan G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but he's kinda chubby and he doesn't want me to see him with no shirt on

2006-06-06 13:29:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy who goes to my college recently told me he s crazy about me but i let him know i dont feel the same way.a couple of days ago i went into a store where he works,i didint know he worked there or i probaly wouldnt have went inside,but anyway he had a huge smile on his face when he saw me and then he went over to some guy and started whispering in his ear and the guy was looking at me with a grin.what could he have possibly said about me ???

2006-06-06 13:29:52 · 2 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-06 13:29:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well I am 20. there is a guy who want to marry me.I been in a lot of problems with guys. all want sex thats it. what u girls think. u dont have to love the person u love. love came after marrige. or leve the persont who want me as wife . or go to the other guys who just wanna have fun.

2006-06-06 13:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by heregoagain_1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfiend have been 2gether for 2 years and i was lookin at his computer come to find out the past month he has been lookin at porn and sometimes when were out i feel like hes checkin out every girl that comes along. what should i do?

2006-06-06 13:27:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-06 13:27:46 · 20 answers · asked by engine119 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-06 13:26:23 · 16 answers · asked by Dawna R 1 in Weddings

tells me I'm crazy. How do I make him realize he is a liar?

2006-06-06 13:26:13 · 6 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he used to like me but i dont no anymore

2006-06-06 13:25:49 · 19 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-06 13:25:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

WHAT is one REGRET you can't get over??

2006-06-06 13:25:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a guy on the internet. we hit it off big time. we talk on the phone and text each other. we have both seen pics of each other. i really really really like him. and from what he says he feels the same way. i feel like im crazy but i think im fallin in love wit him. i dont know if i should be feelin like that.

2006-06-06 13:25:09 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a girl says that u scare her wat does she mean and yea this is a girl i like

2006-06-06 13:24:31 · 15 answers · asked by soccer_player_alex 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend had a really bad realtionship...that lasted a couple years in those years the girl made his life hell.. and forced him into doing alot of things to "prove his love' and no mater how hard he tryed to prove his love.. he still was cheated on...and hurt.. SO my problem now i get NOTHING.. sure i got cards and stuff on special ocasions.. but do you think i could get a jewelery?!?! nooooooo..because aparntly he spend over 1000 dollars on jewelery for this girl and she left..1000 DOLLARS!! im just asking for like 95 dollar ring for are one years so thta i can feel like he actualy cares about me even a fraction of the amount he had for her when he got her those things.. just makes me feel like even though she made his life hell.. he loved her more then me....

2006-06-06 13:24:11 · 14 answers · asked by Kelly 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I gave up my possessions, family, life as I knew it, security, etc. to persue a man whom I knew I would never have but the idea of losing what I had with him and not being able to find someone new (family was going to interfere with any future relationships I had) was something I couldn't deal with. I find myself alone and insecure in my life and financially. I am still involved with the guy but he hasn't had to give up anything in his life (his wife doesn't spy on him) and I have tried hard to find a single man to have a relationship with but they all seem to be so picky or if they are interested in me , they are boring beyond imagination (one wanted to do nothing but sit around his house and watch sports on tv) . Has anyone else given up everything to be with someone and was I stupid to give up everything to persue the best thing that happened to me in years ( sad, but true) as the times I have with him are great.

2006-06-06 13:24:07 · 2 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

I messed upin school this semester and i already had promised i would have done better. I didn't tell her because i didn't want to dissapoint her. She found out and is extremly angry and said i lied to her and made her lose trust in me. I don't know what to do I love her more than anything and she says that all she needs is time to heal the wounds but i am scared b/c she means more to me than anything else in the entire world. Her family is mad b/c i lied and she is upset b/c my friends say it is stupid to leave me for that. I have done whatever for this girl and never asked for anything but love in return. I just need advice so i don't lose her b/c of the one mistake i have commited. I have never held anything against her for what she has done to me but i mess u once and it seems like i am horrible. How do i get her trust back and most importantly her back to me?

2006-06-06 13:23:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how would you react? I mean, it could be true... would you love me back?

2006-06-06 13:23:11 · 22 answers · asked by Mighty Balls ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-06 13:21:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my baby have been together for 10 months and i kno he should be the only boy in my life but there are so many hot guys that i wanna be with also should i break up or cheat.

2006-06-06 13:20:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy,he's a year older than me, i really like him but he will only like me if i take his finals 4 him what should i do my friends think what I'm ginna do is a bad thing but he's gonna be mad at me if i didn't do it (he knows that I like him...)

2006-06-06 13:19:48 · 11 answers · asked by party_gurl_24 2 in Singles & Dating

Mine always breaks and i struggle to put it on. How do you do it?

2006-06-06 13:18:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

which do you perfer

2006-06-06 13:18:36 · 20 answers · asked by azn_senorita_4_ever 2 in Singles & Dating

See what had happened was I go to my brothers baseball practice and I see my boyfriend there. But on friday I went over and sat on the bench ya know and he was talkin to some friend and so two of my friends came over and I talked to the for like 20-25 min. and we were there for 1 1/2 hours and every few min. I would look over like come on say hi something he would look back sometimes but did not do any thing. He called me that night and I told him why did you say with your hommies and not come over to say hi and he said sorry and he ment nothing by it and he aint mad at me and stuff. I'm mad what should I do? And what do you think he ment by it?

2006-06-06 13:18:30 · 11 answers · asked by sweetangelzlove 1 in Singles & Dating