My girlfriend and I were laying in bed lantnight and she brought up that she really wanted to ave a threesome. This is not really like her. She said I should pick a girl. Is this a trap why would she say this I dont want to get burned
2006-06-06 13:31:54 · 17 answers · asked by texman03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LMFAO........Awwww dog, she's trying to see what the other girl name is, you have been seeing.
2006-06-06 13:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not easy to say as there were only you there.
I think the best thing to do, is not accept the offer even if you want to.
Do you want to?
And if she brings up the subject again, just say that if you are to have a threesome, It is important for you that she likes the other girl too.
A threesome is a very common sexual fantasy, but for many it is something they never want to fullfill even tho' it is very arrousing to talk about it and dream about it.
You should talk about it with your girlfriend.
2006-06-06 20:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Shaqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say that she's not trapping you but maybe testing you. If I were a guy, I first ask if she's really serious and if I was cool with it I would ask her to find someone. But If you feel weird about it then you should let her know straight up. (I haven't met a guy who wouldn't do a threesome) As always, Safe sex, condoms a must!!! Good luck and HAVE FUN!
2006-06-06 20:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Passion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking it might be a trap - it probably is. The best thing to do is to never bring it up with her. If she mentions it again take that opportunity to seriously talk to her to find out if she's genuine. There are many many reasons girls will say things like this - they want attention, they want to see if you'll bite, or they want compliments like "there's no other girls I want to have sex with but you." Whatever her reasoning is, if she really wants to have a threesome, she'll bring it up again. Your best bet is to keep your mouth shut!
2006-06-06 20:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by trust me, I know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should pick the girl if she is serious. If you pick you could get caught in the trap. But if she picks you can benefit cause if anything goes wrong its her fault since she picked the girl and the situation. It was her idea.
2006-06-06 20:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she wants to do a threesome then she picks. I fshe wont pick then no threesome. Add that you don't care as long as she's there
2006-06-06 20:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a trap. Tell her that there is no other woman you would want to be with--that is what she wants to hear. Then tell her "tests" are not nice. If she wants to know how you feel about something, she should just ask.
2006-06-06 20:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by i_am_the_dida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r two probabilities....
1. ur girl is testing u.. to check if u are faithful to her and her only. don't fall 4 it... 'coz u'll be dumped as soon as u agree...
2. ur 'girlfriend' may be a Lesbian ... so she can get another girl... don't fall 4 this one too... she's using u. if she's really a lesbian.. u can agree ... "u can see a lot of stuff.... "... usually in the second case... the girl picks the third person
2006-06-06 20:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by *~dazzling.black~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really thing your gf would try to trick you? And if so... do you really want to be with a girl who would? I say pick a girl. If she backs out and says it was only to see if you "would do it" drop her- she's a sneaky *****. But if it's cool with her and there was no trick, more power to you! You've got a keeper!
2006-06-06 20:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a trap to see if you really like her ore you are just playing with her
2006-06-06 20:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a trap, but I think she might be a little confused.
It sounds like she might be a little attracted to women and is ready to experiment.
Just say no, and that you love her and she satisfies you. Don't ever do it.
2006-06-06 20:35:42 · answer #11 · answered by babyitsyou31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋