I messed upin school this semester and i already had promised i would have done better. I didn't tell her because i didn't want to dissapoint her. She found out and is extremly angry and said i lied to her and made her lose trust in me. I don't know what to do I love her more than anything and she says that all she needs is time to heal the wounds but i am scared b/c she means more to me than anything else in the entire world. Her family is mad b/c i lied and she is upset b/c my friends say it is stupid to leave me for that. I have done whatever for this girl and never asked for anything but love in return. I just need advice so i don't lose her b/c of the one mistake i have commited. I have never held anything against her for what she has done to me but i mess u once and it seems like i am horrible. How do i get her trust back and most importantly her back to me?
2006-06-06 13:23:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she still stays with me almost every night and she tells me that she loves me but i amscred what other people are saying can influence her to believe. I didnt lie to her to just be an *** i lied so she would still think of me as the responsible person she wanted to be with for the rest of her life
2006-06-06 13:34:45 · update #1
Dude trust me and give her time and just stay in touch with her and start at the friendship level again and see where it will go if you presist on calling her or showing up where she is you will just piss her off more and push her away
2006-06-06 13:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Love_is_there 3 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Let her go if she doesn't want to stay willingly. Its okay for someone to have a genuine concern for you but if someone tells you that they can't be with you b/c of failure or short comings I hate to tell you that is not love. She has a Control problem and probably doesn't even know it. A woman will love you for you and help you find ways to better yourself not force you to. Realize that you have problems and she does too.If things don't work out don't fret b/c it may be for your own good.
If you are willing to put up with it apologize and try to walk a perfect line. There is more issues than one in this scenario if you look at the root of the problem like Why did you feel like you have to lie in the first...
2006-06-06 13:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you are sorry. explain why you did what you did and tell her that you were wrong. ask her what you can do to regain her trust.? just be honest with her and tell her how you feel. but do not bring up old things that she has done, do not get angry with her and do not yell. talk to her in a calm fashion. tell her that you love her and ask her if she still loves you. she does she would not be so mad if she didn't, good luck.
2006-06-06 13:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her I'm so ashamed for lying
to you having every right to be upset.
Give her time to come around no one
is perfect. Continue to pray for her
and yourself that everything will be
allright.God answers prayers making
miracles happen everyday.
2006-06-06 13:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only one thing you can do and that is give it TIME....if it works out, it will work out; if it doesn't, then GOD has other plans for you...good luck
2006-06-06 13:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she just needs time and you need to stop lying to her.
2006-06-06 13:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋