me and my boyfiend have been 2gether for 2 years and i was lookin at his computer come to find out the past month he has been lookin at porn and sometimes when were out i feel like hes checkin out every girl that comes along. what should i do?
2006-06-06 13:27:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him about the porn and catch him checking out the chicks be like what the hell aren't I good enough for you? Then call him a perv and smack him and then spit on him. If he has to look at other women than he is not totally into you. Take control you are a woman....Right? Be strong don't let that jerk do that crap
2006-06-06 13:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by Love_is_there 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. In and of itself, I do not believe that occasionally looking at porn is an issue. I think you probably look at good looking guys also. Find out exactly where his head is. If there is no indication that he is cheating on you, or that he is addicted to porn (that is a real issue for some), then I'd just let it be. Communication really is the key, as corny as that sounds. Good luck.
2006-06-06 13:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to at least behave or stop checkin out every girl when you are together coz you feel that your presence is not being respected. Never mind the porn thing coz it's natural for boys to do that.
2006-06-06 13:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by crystals 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. It is very uncomfortable when you feel like your man is looking at other women. I've found that I'm not comfortable with myself that is why it bothers me so much. I also realized that I didn't trust him very much. Just because he is looking at it doesn't make it right but that also dose not mean that he is cheating on you or checking out other women. For a man sex is visual for a women its emotional. We have to understand that men and women are very different and view things differently. If you love him and he hasn't really given you a reason to not trust him then let it go.
2006-06-06 13:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by patty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be so jealous. He is with you for a reason. And that is because he is attracted to all of you. If he wanted another girl, he would go for it. And the porn, hes a male.
2006-06-06 13:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by ncbutterfly_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let your bf know that you think he is looking at other girl and you have a problem with that! i would also tell him if he can't stop looking at porn then he can hit the road because you are looking for a reliable bf. and if he tells you he will stop and doesn't i would fill my purse with pricks and hit him with it!!!
2006-06-06 13:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by myluckypuppy57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with porn. as for checking out other girls well thats all it is. Unless you catch them making out you shouldn't be worried. Check the guys out when your out. Give him a taste of his own medicine. If he is allowed to check out girls then you should be aloud to check out guys.
2006-06-06 13:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask for advice then chances are you already know the answer. You are a big girl it's up to u to make that decision.
2006-06-06 13:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Naric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and find a good man thats not in2 that stuff u know?... nxt thing dat mite happen is dat he mite end up being a porn star and trust me u dnt want that.
2006-06-06 13:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by j_s_got_da_flava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and find someone who wants to look at you. Most men are wretchid. When you find a good one, don't let him go.
2006-06-06 13:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋