2006-06-06 13:26:23 · 16 answers · asked by Dawna R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you're contemplating calling the whole wedding off because you two aren't getting along right now, then you definitely should because you're not ready to be married to each other. If calling off your wedding is an option, then divorce would also be an option - and that means you two need to either stay engaged for a while longer, or just break up all together. Marriage should NOT be a challenge at the get-go.
2006-06-06 13:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by trust me, I know 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just called my wedding off this past weekend, we were supposed to be married June 22, less than three weeks away. Not broken up, we're still dating. But we realized that we have a couple of issues that need resolved before either of us make a life time commitment.
Its better to call it off now and work on the problems and have the wedding plans resumed after you are both satisified with the results.
Its easy to get married its hard to get divorced and you don't want to find out too late that you really made a big mistake.
2006-06-06 20:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by neona807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My love and I get married next month. It took a good year to plan this wedding and I've called it off so many times that he asks me every day now if I love him and do I want to do this. It's just something that I think you go thought. We even decided to spend a little time apart like the weekends so I can think over some stuff and just relax. Weddings can take a tole on you. Just relax and take a deep breathe when the weddings over you'll be o.k.
2006-06-06 20:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by lovesweet_cookies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love one another, you should try to work things out. Couples argue, if it's happening a lot, you need to get to the root of what's causing it, and the only way to do this is to be honest with yourself and see everything from a very open view point. Not one sided where you want to blame the other person like people tend to do. Good luck!
2006-06-06 20:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having second thoughts then call it off or postpone it. Marriage is a life long commitment and if you are doubting this then don't do it. You don't want to get married with second thoughts because you will always wonder if you did the right thing and it might end up in divorce. Be sure and be happy with your decision.
2006-06-06 20:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by patty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good show to watch would be Bridezillas. You should get some great ideas from that one. In Chicago it's on Comcast Cable station 502 called WE.
2006-06-06 20:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the *thing* you are having it out about is a Major issue in your lives then it needs to be looked at, and taken care of BEFORE the wedding...... if it can not be resolved so that both of you are in at least a position to agree to disagree then you have problems... get it resolved one way or the other..... I think you know the answer !! ppl DO NOT stick it out if they are in love ........ God bless
2006-06-06 21:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because if you're "having it out" often, then it will only get worse when you are married. The marriage will enhance any little thing that you dislike about him, so if you fight now, watch out come wedding day and beyond.
2006-06-06 21:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by me2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you're having it out about. If it's something petty, then stay and work things out. If it's something lifelong, like wanting kids, etc, then be done if you're not on the same page.
2006-06-06 20:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't provided enough information to answer the question. What are you fighting about? If it's stupid wedding stuff, probably it's not important. If it's life stuff then you need to reconsider.
2006-06-07 03:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋